Friends in their 30s to 40s having midlife crisis

[Arctic]

Serve And F*ckoff.. 

moi dun contact any one anymore ..

cant even leemember the names of those in moi bmt
 

We know

You dun have frens and those ppl dun want to be frens with you either

Even your wife divorced you

We know.

[jim889]

stop talking abt the jhb la, she is past tense. u very funny leh that was like >8 mths ago

it's not her

false hopes everyone gives everyone else incl at work what, right now im talking about work and other aspects of life.

can stop bringing her into the topic?

dun talk about jiu hu yin then talk about ceca bawu
    

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You overshare to anyone everyone that's why

Those not close to you definitely won't be concern or bothered about you lah

And of cos sometimes even close frens and family will also wont' be there for you and disappoint you but no man is an island. Better to have someone you trust

That's why I say having a good buddy in life is akin to finding a wife. Just one is enough, anything more is a blessing

ya but this one also depends on character.

you are right i overshare and over-rely on others. incl my mum

so in a way i stopped but sometimes i still do that, maybe online

but me being rly alone and no friends nor family and with a demented father and $$ issues and other issues is really me going at it all alone

my dad is rly the last piece of hope or wee bit of sanity to cling on to but the dr is saying things arent well

im rly going nuts tbh at work and in personal life

[default]

We know

You dun have frens and those ppl dun want to be frens with you either

Even your wife divorced you

We know.

really meh? i thought the divorced wife is a joke.

anyway not uncommon since 1/3 of marriages end up in divorce.

probably the other 1/3 or more is just putting up with each other....... in the past marriages were different because people had different expectations and goals in life and people were more willing to give in and give up on certain things and compromise and family values

[jim889]

really meh? i thought the divorced wife is a joke.

anyway not uncommon since 1/3 of marriages end up in divorce.

probably the other 1/3 or more is just putting up with each other....... in the past marriages were different because people had different expectations and goals in life and people were more willing to give in and give up on certain things and compromise and family values

We know

You dun have frens and those ppl dun want to be frens with you either

Even your wife divorced you

We know.

lim peh MBA la..

Married But Avaliable
    

[Arctic]

ya but this one also depends on character.

you are right i overshare and over-rely on others. incl my mum

so in a way i stopped but sometimes i still do that, maybe online

but me being rly alone and no friends nor family and with a demented father and $$ issues and other issues is really me going at it all alone

my dad is rly the last piece of hope or wee bit of sanity to cling on to but the dr is saying things arent well

im rly going nuts tbh at work and in personal life

I'm also bbfa that's why I'm here

Edmw/mm is your best fren

At least able to rant here

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u know my cousin and my tua pek tua mmm lives besides me?

u know how shitty that is having to live with relatives super near and they know every shit u do and they always haolian abt how well they are doing going where and where and they got kids blah blah

and they have fully paid hdbs, condos and landed and play mahjong nxt door while i weep abt my dad and my pathetic life at home?

and im bullied into submission at work by colleagues higher ups and subs

and now my life/health is rly going downhill after that fucking elbow injury (now my shoulder feels pain)

fucking shit storm

frankly speaking i can tell u, i kena a lot more shit than others, those who know me will agree. really it's not even abt dwelling in shit

im in absolute shit pool. i try hard to pull myself up and i still get dragged down

[Keeptrucking]

im underweight but recently got sleeping and breathing issues also. maybe is eat too full.

but generally la, mood and happiness play a super big part on life. and whether u have family to cling on.

i dont know why being underweight im also starting to have belly (nv exercise) then my fucking arm is giving me tonnes of problems

and im facing a lot of issues at work.

im stuck in my role, responsibility and everything. like really stuck because im like a go-between but all sides not telling me the full story but hiding things from me and also giving reasons and excuses to not include me.

and then all expect me to know all requirements and translate to both sides when they nv give me full story.

then when succeed the biz side, IT side and management side all happy pat each others' back except mine

when shit happens, im the go-to person to be blamed

i want out of this place

oh look im whining again

it is ok to rant. just continue to work, bochup ppl and earn a wage, while looking around for another job. these people will come and go in your life. cannot bother too much. sometimes, it is the people you meet. heng suay one, not always you that is the problem.

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right now im clicking on every damn job i see as fit and applying

[sTiCkY]

moi every year also crisis

[Keeptrucking]

I feel that for a man if your job is quite stable, you are doing well, quite respected... then your life is about 60-70% happy.

Even if you hv love or family issues.

Of course health issues will be different.

[Arctic]

I feel that for a man if your job is quite stable, you are doing well, quite respected... then your life is about 60-70% happy.

Even if you hv love or family issues.

Of course health issues will be different.

I know that money is extremely impt and job = livelihood

But I hope that more ppl will understand that a job or how much one earn doesn't validate a person in life

I known ppl who are jr managers but act like big shots and on the other hand, doctors who dun want ppl to address them as "dr" in public

[jim889]

I know that money is extremely impt and job = livelihood

But I hope that more ppl will understand that a job or how much one earn doesn't validate a person in life

I known ppl who are jr managers but act like big shots and on the other hand, doctors who dun want ppl to address them as "dr" in public

some high flyer loh koon prefer to be called "Mr"