Stupid father ruined his child's life so now the son 啃老 all the way

[Imboredtodeath]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=szNrSOV_LXg

[Imboredtodeath]

what do you think? i agree the father esp screwed up the son's life

一手好牌打得稀烂

totally agree got 3 times to change the son's life...... repeat gao kao, go germany (these 2 esp the germany one i feel most impt), then nv buy the beijing house

hes trying to force his son to fulfill his own fucked upness and beh kan ness

[Arctic]

Imo, many of such scholars are 'enlightened' and are not interested in this materialistic world

Recently there is this young scholar in sg who "retired" too right? His news appeared in papers, edmw also discussed about him

My army jr who has a phd also enlightened kind of guy, he's a bio researcher iirc. Not interested in money and branded etc, earn enough to use can liao

However, this chinese genius lying flat is extreme lah

[Imboredtodeath]

Imo, many of such scholars are 'enlightened' and are not interested in this materialistic world

Recently there is this young scholar in sg who "retired" too right? His news appeared in papers, edmw also discussed about him

My army jr who has a phd also enlightened kind of guy, he's a bio researcher iirc. Not interested in money and branded etc, earn enough to use can liao

However, this chinese genius lying flat is extreme lah

i also got a colleague like that

recently just joined company... like 6 mths or so

tell us he wants to study to phd nxt time

[semen blow snow]

Deeply ingrained Chinese parents all same sheep brain. Study high high get goods jobs sure huat.
Cock block u ask u to get into debts get married with 5 kids let them play buy 1m hdb. Their brains are so retarded feel like wallop them

[Arctic]

i also got a colleague like that

recently just joined company... like 6 mths or so

tell us he wants to study to phd nxt time

Study for promotion or to gain knowledge?

[Arctic]

I know of ppl study masters just it advance in career that's all

[Imboredtodeath]

Study for promotion or to gain knowledge?

he said gain knowledge. i kind of think he rly doesnt want to work or not work in that place but more of academics or research

[Arctic]

he said gain knowledge. i kind of think he rly doesnt want to work or not work in that place but more of academics or research

Same as my fren then

That's why I say those who are really damn smart kind are enlightened. They dun care about worldly material stuff liao

[BuiBuiForeverAlone]

what do you think? i agree the father esp screwed up the son's life

一手好牌打得稀烂

totally agree got 3 times to change the son's life...... repeat gao kao, go germany (these 2 esp the germany one i feel most impt), then nv buy the beijing house

hes trying to force his son to fulfill his own fucked upness and beh kan ness

This is what happens when the parents messes too much with the kid's development authoritarian style.

[BuiBuiForeverAlone]

Related: https://forums.hardwarezone.com.sg/threads/young-adults-who-severed-ties-with-their-parents-say-filial-piety-should-go-both-ways-34yo-ms-joey-liaw-she-ended-up-in-a-coffee-shop-alone.7091624/page-14#post-154823072

Saw this thread over at edmw. Many cyberbullies in the thread as usual siding with the parents over the kid. Parents made the choice to have sex and give birth to the kid, so they should be responsible and support the child's development so that the child can lead an independent life.

[Imboredtodeath]

Same as my fren then

That's why I say those who are really damn smart kind are enlightened. They dun care about worldly material stuff liao

Enlightened meh? I think more of 兴趣.

I also got 兴趣 in many things but no rich laopeh what to do

[Arctic]

Enlightened meh? I think more of 兴趣.

I also got 兴趣 in many things but no rich laopeh what to do

Cos you say he further his studies is to gain knowledge and not to advance in career mah so I assume he's enlightened

Most of the ppl I know who pursued further studies is to advance in career, just to one up the countless degree holders

[BuiBuiForeverAlone]

Enlightened meh? I think more of 兴趣.

I also got 兴趣 in many things but no rich laopeh what to do

If a person's job is also their passion/interest, it's a career. Otherwise, it's just a job. Most people don't have careers. Perhaps making money is their interest so every good paying high position job is their career.