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Do you believe that you can be friends with someone but not colleagues?

Started by Philipkee, Oct 11, 2024, 04:32 PM

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Do you believe you can be friends with someone but not colleagues?

Yes
1 (16.7%)
No
2 (33.3%)
What is a friend/colleague?
3 (50%)

Total Members Voted: 6

Philipkee

Do you believe you can be friends with someone but not colleagues?  I kind of disagree. It's like saying I can be friends with someone as long as we have not competing interests. It means your friendship is also very shallow.

But if it's a case of I can be friends with a messy person but not be a colleague to a messy person, then maybe but it kind of means you are two faced or something like that.  Behave one way in one situation and one way in another.

Here I am talking about friends rah.  Not saying you marry your colleague or friend.
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encourageSome1

Quote from: Philipkee on Oct 11, 2024, 04:32 PMDo you believe you can be friends with someone but not colleagues?  I kind of disagree. It's like saying I can be friends with someone as long as we have not competing interests. It means your friendship is also very shallow.

But if it's a case of I can be friends with a messy person but not be a colleague to a messy person, then maybe but it kind of means you are two faced or something like that.  Behave one way in one situation and one way in another.

Here I am talking about friends rah.  Not saying you marry your colleague or friend.

I hv friends whom I built our rs fr a hi bye coworker
To gd fren
To bff

Also got good fren then work tgt
Then in work he badmouthed n spun stories abt some of us to get to better position

I was young n new to work n workplaces n nv worked much before then
Since he like that I left the co

After x years he left too. I wish to say I never need to attend anyth about him but sometimes got 1-2 common friends a bit mybf have to see face to face sometimes

I no longer feel hurt or surprise or heartbroken anyth abt how he backstabbed me just for bettering own position in there but it teaches me some ppl is can be friend
Can't work with u
Only time n work can tell u n give u lessons after they scar you

Now every time see him just try to hi bye and keep a maximum distance if I can . Hypocrites should not be indulged with my precious limited friendship n time .
He sometimes try to pretend to be nice ask me random stuff but I take it with one box of salt and no diff from passer by remark at best

encourageSome1

Quote from: jim889 on Oct 11, 2024, 04:53 PMno fren better
 :frown:
A friend is like 🖊�

A few good ones better than 99 bad or shallow ones
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Arctic

Yes, definitely

Not about being 2 face but some frens they are just not proficient in certain areas so not suitable to be colleagues and biz partners

encourageSome1

Quote from: Arctic on Oct 11, 2024, 05:12 PMYes, definitely

Not about being 2 face but some frens they are just not proficient in certain areas so not suitable to be colleagues and biz partners
at least they nv come n scar you 🤔🫣💪🏿👍

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Only money is real

No guessing game

Quote from: EncourageSome1 on Oct 11, 2024, 04:57 PMI hv friends whom I built our rs fr a hi bye coworker
To gd fren
To bff

Also got good fren then work tgt
Then in work he badmouthed n spun stories abt some of us to get to better position

I was young n new to work n workplaces n nv worked much before then
Since he like that I left the co

After x years he left too. I wish to say I never need to attend anyth about him but sometimes got 1-2 common friends a bit mybf have to see face to face sometimes

I no longer feel hurt or surprise or heartbroken anyth abt how he backstabbed me just for bettering own position in there but it teaches me some ppl is can be friend
Can't work with u
Only time n work can tell u n give u lessons after they scar you

Now every time see him just try to hi bye and keep a maximum distance if I can . Hypocrites should not be indulged with my precious limited friendship n time .
He sometimes try to pretend to be nice ask me random stuff but I take it with one box of salt and no diff from passer by remark at best

Seriously just fuck him then warn your friends what type of person he is la
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encourageSome1

Quote from: Nevereatrice on Oct 11, 2024, 07:22 PMSeriously just fuck him then warn your friends what type of person he is la

He bad to me but nv work w rest of them .. while I don't like hypocrites I don't need other ppl to unfriend him either

It's not kindergarten time , U fren me U can't fren him a . Otherwise I no fren U
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encourageSome1

Quote from: Nevereatrice on Oct 11, 2024, 07:22 PMSeriously just fuck him then warn your friends what type of person he is la

I told them not suitable workplace lor
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Philipkee

Quote from: Nevereatrice on Oct 11, 2024, 07:22 PMSeriously just fuck him then warn your friends what type of person he is la

Later he claim lkk sexually harass him lei :(

encourageSome1

Quote from: Philipkee on Oct 11, 2024, 07:32 PMLater he claim lkk sexually harass him lei :(

Then lkk reputation gone down drain
Jump into sg river also can't wash clean

GhostZM

Quote from: EncourageSome1 on Oct 11, 2024, 07:38 PMThen lkk reputation gone down drain
Jump into sg river also can't wash clean

SG river 算什么?
Try jumping into yellow river..


CheerS!!!😉
Be Kind To Your Children. Don't Have Any.

encourageSome1

Quote from: GhostZM on Oct 11, 2024, 07:43 PMSG river 算什么?
Try jumping into yellow river..


CheerS!!!😉
pls give a mah directions and ticket to enter Tiong land and transport to go yellow river


No guessing game

Quote from: EncourageSome1 on Oct 11, 2024, 07:27 PMHe bad to me but nv work w rest of them .. while I don't like hypocrites I don't need other ppl to unfriend him either

It's not kindergarten time , U fren me U can't fren him a . Otherwise I no fren U

No warn is bec u treasure your other friends. Just like three pubor ceca he do chu 1 i x10 return him 96


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