What do u do with this kind of person?

[encourageSome1]

Last year, I was a part-timer in a 3 mth contract job. In the job, I get to know a girl, who is also a part timer just like me.

Whenever I spotted the girl's mistake. I will inform the girl directly, I advice her, so that she wouldn't repeat the same mistakes. At that point of time, her attention was all on the full timers. Whatever the advices coming from full timers are bibles to her, I'm just a part timer to her it's nothing.

One month before I leave, by chance I heard full-timers criticizing about her, so I mention to her to be careful etc, what not to do, without quoting anyone's name. Just hope she take note to avoid that action. In turn, she ignored me all the way till the end till I leave the job.


Fast forward 9 months later, she msg me via Facebook (she prob deleted my number) says she missed our batch of people who don't backstab. We always kindly advised her she now appreciates it. The full-timers she prayed like gods to, backstab behind her and outcasted her, together with new part timer. She explained the reason why she ignored me is because I choose not to mention other ppl's name. Now everyday she spam message and rant to me how evil the people in that workplace is, for around 2 mths. She wished to meet me for meals if I'm free.


If u are me, how do u deal with such people? I don't feel like meeting her already, tbh.   

I will say "I m sorry thanks for yr invite , I m not available . "

Go with yr heart , if u don't wish to see her and doubt u want to influence her to improve .. then she meeting u will u more resent her .. suggest not to lor

If she spam a lot and u really can't tk it maybe u want to stop reading / replying &
Jus ignore her messages ?

[氰化钾 KCN]

Don't waste your time on her anymore.

[default]

I have nothing for her to let her dig tbh. That workplace is somewhere I definitely wouldn't go back to. So I am quite sure I'm free of these issues.

still not good to totally burn bridges... just reply less and less and seem disinterested

since she was never close to u

[Shiori]

my suggestion is to ignore such ppl

[drdoof]

Ignore. You've already left the job.