i go datting apps always see girls say kindness attracts them

[vezelover]

but in real life i see kind guys kicked to the kerb while asshole guys get all the chicks

[No guessing game]

Like Guy with ambition = high posts in career such as pilot, lawyer, doctors

Like intelligent guys = guys with potential Havard cert/local uni lawyer/doctor cert

These are women language. U need to Crack

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kindness means very kind to her, give many zhua ji

[encourageSome1]

but in real life i see kind guys kicked to the kerb while asshole guys get all the chicks

Mean a hole know how to market themselves better lor