[reddit] School bullying situation

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[tomsss]

parents need to action, other than just make police report

hum the bully with:

[daryl76]

tell the parent to expose the school

since msf is useless

[No guessing game]

parents need to action, other than just make police report

hum the bully with:

I also think so. Bully should be dealt with bully method. Give him a good punch in the face let him go hospital confirm will cure his bullying

[No guessing game]

tell the parent to expose the school

since msf is useless

They  cb poh lampa useless one la. Not minister son they won't care

[daryl76]

They  cb poh lampa useless one la. Not minister son they won't care

my second boy kena before, end up he go whack the boy up... hahahahah

i always tell my kids, i dun wan them to bully others but neither are they to be bullied

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my second boy kena before, end up he go whack the boy up... hahahahah

i always tell my kids, i dun wan them to bully others but neither are they to be bullied

Good job. The only cure to deal with bullies is beat them up

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most of the time kena bully physically is because they see u as easy target

psychologically then a bit hard coz sometimes is close friends suddenly ostracize u or crack jokes about u, suan u

altho ive been small sized all my life nv rly kena physically bullied, even pai kia also nv rly touch me coz i give them the death stare and dont f with me attitude when kena

but of course still must give respect la, dont purposely people nv do sht to u then u do it back to them, but if u can get chummy with others, usually wont be targeted

psychologically got, by so-called friends towards end of sec sch

basically he needs more friends and people like teachers or whatever to have his back....... but of course different case different la. maybe he from gangster sch while i was from a not so bad sec sch hence less of such rubbish

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my second boy kena before, end up he go whack the boy up... hahahahah

i always tell my kids, i dun wan them to bully others but neither are they to be bullied

actually this one worrying, coz kids dont know how to control strength. some of them use weapons, even when they are not rly paikia

if just normal fighting or sparring without going for the kill or with weapons, then still ok

but u nv know the guy u fight with suddenly pulls out a swiss army knife or a pen then hosay ure gonna be in deep shit

i almost kena pencil into my eye before

u know kids, they dont know any shit and the thing is they wont be at fault, so i would rather ask kids to stay away from fighting because u dont want the other guy dead but he may want u dead just to show he can win

[daryl76]

actually this one worrying, coz kids dont know how to control strength. some of them use weapons, even when they are not rly paikia

if just normal fighting or sparring without going for the kill or with weapons, then still ok

but u nv know the guy u fight with suddenly pulls out a swiss army knife or a pen then hosay ure gonna be in deep shit

i almost kena pencil into my eye before

u know kids, they dont know any shit and the thing is they wont be at fault, so i would rather ask kids to stay away from fighting because u dont want the other guy dead but he may want u dead just to show he can win

u cant do shit if kid dun stop and school not doing anything, same like the bukit batok murder case, so many fucking reports made and nothing done until one kisiao and killed the neighbor

this one the other kid refused to stop despite my boy telling him to, so one day he tulan go whack the kid up... the mom came to us, we just told her, why didnt his son stop bullying my boy then?

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u cant do shit if kid dun stop and school not doing anything, same like the bukit batok murder case, so many fucking reports made and nothing done until one kisiao and killed the neighbor

this one the other kid refused to stop despite my boy telling him to, so one day he tulan go whack the kid up... the mom came to us, we just told her, why didnt his son stop bullying my boy then?

true la i understand but kids being kids their frontal cortex not developed it takes a lot for them to snap or do things without thinking of consequences because they also dont know the law

this one if rly any shit happens both sides damn suay esp the one with permanent injury

for myself i have a scar at my eyebrow. super fucking close scare in pri sch

if rly kena it's permanent. u think the other kid would get anything other than caning and counselling even during our time? somemore it happened i think in pri 3 or sth

nth's gonna happen to such a kid siah. if 16 and above still need to bear more consequences but the suay kia got to live with the blindness or perm injury his entire life

[daryl76]

true la i understand but kids being kids their frontal cortex not developed it takes a lot for them to snap or do things without thinking of consequences because they also dont know the law

this one if rly any shit happens both sides damn suay esp the one with permanent injury

for myself i have a scar at my eyebrow. super fucking close scare in pri sch

if rly kena it's permanent. u think the other kid would get anything other than caning and counselling even during our time? somemore it happened i think in pri 3 or sth

nth's gonna happen to such a kid siah. if 16 and above still need to bear more consequences but the suay kia got to live with the blindness or perm injury his entire life

i am one who will wanna avoid confrontation if possible also, but if the other party die die wanna come, den no way i am gonna stay and be whacked

i am born at night but not last night leh, i am not a believer of "someone slap your right cheek, ask him to slap the left cheek too"