I also feel disillusioned about work and life

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开始怀疑人生

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@Shiori     

[daryl76]

its normal to feel this way at times
perhaps u need a mate, ask your jhb tenant if she needs one

[Arctic]

Me too.....
But parents still ard so I have to act happy in front of them

[Keeptrucking]

Very common once we hit 40s and bigger life issues like family's health, work and relationships come in.

You are not alone

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its normal to feel this way at times
perhaps u need a mate, ask your jhb tenant if she needs one

I no like her she no like me   

Hope she faster siam so i can have my own life back

[daryl76]

I no like her she no like me   

Hope she faster siam so i can have my own life back

your place so convenient, dun think she wanna go lol

sometimes one can find life so stagnant, dunno what to look for and what to live for even... even for ppl with family

find someone to talk to, speak up and speak out

[Shiori]

what to do...

[encourageSome1]

Me too.....
But parents still ard so I have to act happy in front of them

Why own parents hv to act or pretend ? My bro told me jus don share ur unsolvable things to them cos they ll worry n can't help .. if not happy i think its ok they knew or uds .. family is for that .. family is ppl who uds us a lot and still care enuf abt us to say us ..

 esp if we sometimes can't see open and alws self pity
or

Tk it upon ourselves a certain thing cannot be solved


There is a saying 当局者迷 旁观者清
Sometimes we get too embroiled and can't focus on the key things and get sad or delulu but our besties or family can come n scold some sense into us .. which we all need every now and then

[encourageSome1]

I no like her she no like me   

Hope she faster siam so i can have my own life back

ppl won't right from start don't like or like someone de

Must be something she do or behave that makes u not at ease or not ok with her .. but still each human diff background n living patterns .. it's normal for another human not to like us n vice versa .. a) try to close one eye

B) we also need ppl to accept our irritating quirks n patterns

C) everyone also different from us 99% it's usual to be uncomfortable... all humans need 磨合期

[encourageSome1]

its normal to feel this way at times
perhaps u need a mate, ask your jhb tenant if she needs one

Got a partner would only double agony double happiness.. problem still exists de la

[Arctic]

Why own parents hv to act or pretend ? My bro told me jus don share ur unsolvable things to them cos they ll worry n can't help .. if not happy i think its ok they knew or uds .. family is for that .. family is ppl who uds us a lot and still care enuf abt us to say us ..

 esp if we sometimes can't see open and alws self pity
or

Tk it upon ourselves a certain thing cannot be solved


There is a saying 当局者迷 旁观者清
Sometimes we get too embroiled and can't focus on the key things and get sad or delulu but our besties or family can come n scold some sense into us .. which we all need every now and then

Your own brother also said dun share unsolvable things to parents which is in a way also acting happy in front of them. No difference

报喜不报忧 in general

[daryl76]

Got a partner would only double agony double happiness.. problem still exists de la

thats why marriages break down, lol

some ppl still learning how to be a parent, a partner... even me

[GhostZM]

Congratulations..u have reach that age to feel this way..

Achievement unlocked!


CheerS!!!😉

[Bardiel]

do the bare minimal and do what u r happy in life.

i give up how ppl judge me. i am near mid 30s. i still play g ame and watch anime. my wifu also dont care cos she also say do what u happy can liao

but balance abit between me and wifu. sometime do things she like, for example watch certain movie or show with her. shopping etc