Should I give up on my possible bonus/AWS

[pikapika33]

oct to dec more opening i feel
but have to give up aws lo

but than, if cannot get a better job, why not just hang in there?
after cny and bonuses you will need to compete with alot more people though as people normally wait until take bonus than jump

so give and take lo see got opportunity or not

[nyvrem]

everywhr is got problems one. more or less only

like currently i have to work with that cheebye bitch

i find women very very hard to work with

[jim889]

i find women very very hard to work with

sure or notch.. teacher jod mostly woman moar
 

[nyvrem]

sure or notch.. teacher jod mostly woman moar
 

thats y im in admin side liao

[tokiya]

Your mental health and happiness worth more than bonus and AWS.

If you are happier to leave, just leave. Trust me.

[jim889]

thats y im in admin side liao

admin also many woman ma
 

[Shiori]

thanks all for your inputs !

[encourageSome1]

Since I already lun for so long and now is towards Q4 of the year

See many job openings look like firefighting type aka go straight into hell/shythole

I think can go n interview no problem
Like u hv a donkey but look for horse ok ma

If opportunity is normal u might or not want cos of yr aws

But if u see something potential .. nett worth is worth giving up e aws I ll go la : this me .. everyone thinks differently
But in e end everyone earns a living at a liveable place can alr

[nyvrem]

admin also many woman ma
 

my department 4 ppl nia

2 guys 2 girls. same 4 of us for 10 years liao

no need worli

[jim889]

my department 4 ppl nia

2 guys 2 girls. same 4 of us for 10 years liao

no need worli

then if 1 pax transfer out then hoh say liao
 

[nyvrem]

then if 1 pax transfer out then hoh say liao
 

nobody transfers out/in unless they want quit/retire

its a fix department

perks of working as a serpent in a tiny dark corner department

we get to choose our own career path

 

[jim889]

nobody transfers out/in unless they want quit/retire

its a fix department

perks of working as a serpent in a tiny dark corner department

we get to choose our own career path

 

ya.. as long as circumstances change for 1 pax they will quit/leetire
 

[default]

i find women very very hard to work with

Many of them are damn toxic and vindictive. Not all but enough of them.

Even women dont want to work under women

[default]

My case she insulted me even her co worker agree she went overboard. I could have gone to her 2 levels higher and hr.

And i realised all along she guailan me and gaslight me say i beh kan all are untrue that i can counter.

Talk to me about technical knowledge and competency but i actually trounce her at it.

Even if talk abt writing paper, proposals and presentations, even quarreling professionally people above me 2 levels also lose my ang mor and chinese.

Who does she think she is? Recently she made personal attacks on me and that was the last straw

Last time she say i slack then i thought abt it and agreed. After that i did a lot more even part of her work and i 问心无愧 but she still kept on being vindictive and aiming me everytime


Her boss and co worker knows i buay lun liao. And im not a pushover. Recently just cleared her shit
She also not appreciative or thankful.

If i go on 100% offensive she cant handle me for sure. 100%. Even her boss cant take me on. Im not being haolian here.

I rly bow down, and apologised last time for slacking (1+ yrs ago) and am now in some ways doing more than her. Yet she still play little tricks to undermine me. I made it clear to her boss and co worker i will not let her off liao and i reserve the rights to pursue the matter

[encourageSome1]

My case she insulted me even her co worker agree she went overboard. I could have gone to her 2 levels higher and hr.

And i realised all along she guailan me and gaslight me say i beh kan all are untrue that i can counter.

Talk to me about technical knowledge and competency but i actually trounce her at it.

Even if talk abt writing paper, proposals and presentations, even quarreling professionally people above me 2 levels also lose my ang mor and chinese.

Who does she think she is? Recently she made personal attacks on me and that was the last straw

Last time she say i slack then i thought abt it and agreed. After that i did a lot more even part of her work and i 问心无愧 but she still kept on being vindictive and aiming me everytime


Her boss and co worker knows i buay lun liao. And im not a pushover. Recently just cleared her shit
She also not appreciative or thankful.

If i go on 100% offensive she cant handle me for sure. 100%. Even her boss cant take me on. Im not being haolian here.

I rly bow down, and apologised last time for slacking (1+ yrs ago) and am now in some ways doing more than her. Yet she still play little tricks to undermine me. I made it clear to her boss and co worker i will not let her off liao and i reserve the rights to pursue the matter

Either offender is a siaolang or she been hurt so she isn't in right state of mind to appreciate other ppl like u who helped her
Sounds like She making shit for herself