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General Category => The Common Lounge => Topic started by: Philipkee on Oct 11, 2024, 04:32 PM

Poll
Question: Do you believe you can be friends with someone but not colleagues?
Option 1: Yes votes: 1
Option 2: No votes: 2
Option 3: What is a friend/colleague? votes: 3
Title: Do you believe that you can be friends with someone but not colleagues?
Post by: Philipkee on Oct 11, 2024, 04:32 PM
Do you believe you can be friends with someone but not colleagues?  I kind of disagree. It's like saying I can be friends with someone as long as we have not competing interests. It means your friendship is also very shallow.

But if it's a case of I can be friends with a messy person but not be a colleague to a messy person, then maybe but it kind of means you are two faced or something like that.  Behave one way in one situation and one way in another.

Here I am talking about friends rah.  Not saying you marry your colleague or friend.
Title: Re: Do you believe that you can be friends with someone but not colleagues?
Post by: jim889 on Oct 11, 2024, 04:53 PM
no fren better
 :frown:
Title: Re: Do you believe that you can be friends with someone but not colleagues?
Post by: encourageSome1 on Oct 11, 2024, 04:57 PM
Quote from: Philipkee on Oct 11, 2024, 04:32 PMDo you believe you can be friends with someone but not colleagues?  I kind of disagree. It's like saying I can be friends with someone as long as we have not competing interests. It means your friendship is also very shallow.

But if it's a case of I can be friends with a messy person but not be a colleague to a messy person, then maybe but it kind of means you are two faced or something like that.  Behave one way in one situation and one way in another.

Here I am talking about friends rah.  Not saying you marry your colleague or friend.

I hv friends whom I built our rs fr a hi bye coworker
To gd fren
To bff

Also got good fren then work tgt
Then in work he badmouthed n spun stories abt some of us to get to better position

I was young n new to work n workplaces n nv worked much before then
Since he like that I left the co

After x years he left too. I wish to say I never need to attend anyth about him but sometimes got 1-2 common friends a bit mybf have to see face to face sometimes

I no longer feel hurt or surprise or heartbroken anyth abt how he backstabbed me just for bettering own position in there but it teaches me some ppl is can be friend
Can't work with u
Only time n work can tell u n give u lessons after they scar you

Now every time see him just try to hi bye and keep a maximum distance if I can . Hypocrites should not be indulged with my precious limited friendship n time .
He sometimes try to pretend to be nice ask me random stuff but I take it with one box of salt and no diff from passer by remark at best
Title: Re: Do you believe that you can be friends with someone but not colleagues?
Post by: encourageSome1 on Oct 11, 2024, 04:58 PM
Quote from: jim889 on Oct 11, 2024, 04:53 PMno fren better
 :frown:
A friend is like 🖊�

A few good ones better than 99 bad or shallow ones
Title: Re: Do you believe that you can be friends with someone but not colleagues?
Post by: Arctic on Oct 11, 2024, 05:12 PM
Yes, definitely

Not about being 2 face but some frens they are just not proficient in certain areas so not suitable to be colleagues and biz partners
Title: Re: Do you believe that you can be friends with someone but not colleagues?
Post by: encourageSome1 on Oct 11, 2024, 05:18 PM
Quote from: Arctic on Oct 11, 2024, 05:12 PMYes, definitely

Not about being 2 face but some frens they are just not proficient in certain areas so not suitable to be colleagues and biz partners
at least they nv come n scar you 🤔🫣💪🏿👍

Title: Re: Do you believe that you can be friends with someone but not colleagues?
Post by: Imboredtodeath on Oct 11, 2024, 07:15 PM
Yes both are true.
Title: Re: Do you believe that you can be friends with someone but not colleagues?
Post by: Tuna seng on Oct 11, 2024, 07:22 PM
Quote from: EncourageSome1 on Oct 11, 2024, 04:57 PMI hv friends whom I built our rs fr a hi bye coworker
To gd fren
To bff

Also got good fren then work tgt
Then in work he badmouthed n spun stories abt some of us to get to better position

I was young n new to work n workplaces n nv worked much before then
Since he like that I left the co

After x years he left too. I wish to say I never need to attend anyth about him but sometimes got 1-2 common friends a bit mybf have to see face to face sometimes

I no longer feel hurt or surprise or heartbroken anyth abt how he backstabbed me just for bettering own position in there but it teaches me some ppl is can be friend
Can't work with u
Only time n work can tell u n give u lessons after they scar you

Now every time see him just try to hi bye and keep a maximum distance if I can . Hypocrites should not be indulged with my precious limited friendship n time .
He sometimes try to pretend to be nice ask me random stuff but I take it with one box of salt and no diff from passer by remark at best

Seriously just fuck him then warn your friends what type of person he is la
Title: Re: Do you believe that you can be friends with someone but not colleagues?
Post by: encourageSome1 on Oct 11, 2024, 07:27 PM
Quote from: Nevereatrice on Oct 11, 2024, 07:22 PMSeriously just fuck him then warn your friends what type of person he is la

He bad to me but nv work w rest of them .. while I don't like hypocrites I don't need other ppl to unfriend him either

It's not kindergarten time , U fren me U can't fren him a . Otherwise I no fren U
Title: Re: Do you believe that you can be friends with someone but not colleagues?
Post by: encourageSome1 on Oct 11, 2024, 07:27 PM
Quote from: Nevereatrice on Oct 11, 2024, 07:22 PMSeriously just fuck him then warn your friends what type of person he is la

I told them not suitable workplace lor
Title: Re: Do you believe that you can be friends with someone but not colleagues?
Post by: Philipkee on Oct 11, 2024, 07:32 PM
Quote from: Nevereatrice on Oct 11, 2024, 07:22 PMSeriously just fuck him then warn your friends what type of person he is la

Later he claim lkk sexually harass him lei :(
Title: Re: Do you believe that you can be friends with someone but not colleagues?
Post by: encourageSome1 on Oct 11, 2024, 07:38 PM
Quote from: Philipkee on Oct 11, 2024, 07:32 PMLater he claim lkk sexually harass him lei :(

Then lkk reputation gone down drain
Jump into sg river also can't wash clean
Title: Re: Do you believe that you can be friends with someone but not colleagues?
Post by: Chao seng on Oct 11, 2024, 07:43 PM
Quote from: EncourageSome1 on Oct 11, 2024, 07:38 PMThen lkk reputation gone down drain
Jump into sg river also can't wash clean

SG river 算什么?
Try jumping into yellow river..


CheerS!!!😉
Title: Re: Do you believe that you can be friends with someone but not colleagues?
Post by: encourageSome1 on Oct 11, 2024, 07:45 PM
Quote from: GhostZM on Oct 11, 2024, 07:43 PMSG river 算什么?
Try jumping into yellow river..


CheerS!!!😉
pls give a mah directions and ticket to enter Tiong land and transport to go yellow river

Title: Re: Do you believe that you can be friends with someone but not colleagues?
Post by: Tuna seng on Oct 11, 2024, 07:52 PM
Quote from: EncourageSome1 on Oct 11, 2024, 07:27 PMHe bad to me but nv work w rest of them .. while I don't like hypocrites I don't need other ppl to unfriend him either

It's not kindergarten time , U fren me U can't fren him a . Otherwise I no fren U

No warn is bec u treasure your other friends. Just like three pubor ceca he do chu 1 i x10 return him 96
Title: Re: Do you believe that you can be friends with someone but not colleagues?
Post by: Tuna seng on Oct 11, 2024, 07:53 PM
Quote from: Philipkee on Oct 11, 2024, 07:32 PMLater he claim lkk sexually harass him lei :(

Piak him 9696
Title: Re: Do you believe that you can be friends with someone but not colleagues?
Post by: Arctic on Oct 11, 2024, 08:06 PM
Quote from: EncourageSome1 on Oct 11, 2024, 07:45 PMpls give a mah directions and ticket to enter Tiong land and transport to go yellow river



You stay woodlands area ah? Go the waterfront loh
Title: Re: Do you believe that you can be friends with someone but not colleagues?
Post by: Arctic on Oct 11, 2024, 08:09 PM
Quote from: Nevereatrice on Oct 11, 2024, 07:52 PMNo warn is bec u treasure your other friends. Just like three pubor ceca he do chu 1 i x10 return him 96


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Title: Re: Do you believe that you can be friends with someone but not colleagues?
Post by: BuiBuiForeverAlone on Oct 11, 2024, 08:17 PM
If really friend then it doesn't matter colleague or excolleague or bff or boss. If not really a friend then of course all these matters rah.
Title: Re: Do you believe that you can be friends with someone but not colleagues?
Post by: encourageSome1 on Oct 11, 2024, 10:56 PM
Quote from: Arctic on Oct 11, 2024, 08:06 PMYou stay woodlands area ah? Go the waterfront loh

Yea can cycle there .. I nearer yishlum dam la
Title: Re: Do you believe that you can be friends with someone but not colleagues?
Post by: encourageSome1 on Oct 11, 2024, 11:29 PM
Quote from: Nevereatrice on Oct 11, 2024, 07:52 PMNo warn is bec u treasure your other friends. Just like three pubor ceca he do chu 1 i x10 return him 96

冤冤相报何时了
Round round hugging each other when will circle ⭕️ end ?

Sometimes human change for better after many things happen

But I agree w u , if they want to go into partnership or they asked me opinion abt working tgt or new stuff w this person I ll give my opinion
Title: Re: Do you believe that you can be friends with someone but not colleagues?
Post by: Tuna seng on Oct 11, 2024, 11:56 PM
Quote from: EncourageSome1 on Oct 11, 2024, 11:29 PM冤冤相报何时了
Round round hugging each other when will circle ⭕️ end ?

Sometimes human change for better after many things happen

But I agree w u , if they want to go into partnership or they asked me opinion abt working tgt or new stuff w this person I ll give my opinion

Still han
Quote from: EncourageSome1 on Oct 11, 2024, 11:29 PM冤冤相报何时了
Round round hugging each other when will circle ⭕️ end ?

Sometimes human change for better after many things happen

But I agree w u , if they want to go into partnership or they asked me opinion abt working tgt or new stuff w this person I ll give my opinion


Anyway i wont waste my thing around with him or accommodate him in my life. I will straight away tell turn i dont like this guy either him or me
Title: Re: Do you believe that you can be friends with someone but not colleagues?
Post by: encourageSome1 on Oct 12, 2024, 12:07 AM
Quote from: Nevereatrice on Oct 11, 2024, 11:56 PMStill han

Anyway i wont waste my thing around with him or accommodate him in my life. I will straight away tell turn i dont like this guy either him or me

Hi Didi I admire Ur 潇洒Ness when come to rs
I can but I don't want to put other ppl in a spot that way .. but I v much appreciate that there r ppl who straight away cut away toxic ppl 👍👏👏
Title: Re: Do you believe that you can be friends with someone but not colleagues?
Post by: Tuna seng on Oct 12, 2024, 07:52 AM
Quote from: EncourageSome1 on Oct 12, 2024, 12:07 AMHi Didi I admire Ur 潇洒Ness when come to rs
I can but I don't want to put other ppl in a spot that way .. but I v much appreciate that there r ppl who straight away cut away toxic ppl 👍👏👏

Crab horoscope in play
Title: Re: Do you believe that you can be friends with someone but not colleagues?
Post by: frogcalls on Oct 12, 2024, 08:00 AM
My personal experience, a colleague can be a co worker work together shun shun for years, but once become a supervisor Jin jialat
Title: Re: Do you believe that you can be friends with someone but not colleagues?
Post by: daryl76 on Oct 12, 2024, 09:14 AM
really got such ppl

some can be friends but not colleagues cos they are really sloppy with work

some can be colleagues but not friends cos they are professional and good with their work but typically lanjiao lang in life
Title: Re: Do you believe that you can be friends with someone but not colleagues?
Post by: encourageSome1 on Oct 12, 2024, 10:36 AM
Quote from: Nevereatrice on Oct 12, 2024, 07:52 AMCrab horoscope in play


Hmm 🤔 don't know na
But I don't like to be put in a spot
N I also don t like to put ppl in a difficult spot

Life is short don't mk it alr difficult life more difficult
百姓何苦为难百姓?
Title: Re: Do you believe that you can be friends with someone but not colleagues?
Post by: Tuna seng on Oct 12, 2024, 10:41 AM
Quote from: EncourageSome1 on Oct 12, 2024, 10:36 AMHmm 🤔 don't know na
But I don't like to be put in a spot
N I also don t like to put ppl in a difficult spot

Life is short don't mk it alr difficult life more difficult
百姓何苦为难百姓?

Guess my horoscope : Life is short other ppl better don't make it difficult for me if not i x10 return like that chao ceca.
Title: Re: Do you believe that you can be friends with someone but not colleagues?
Post by: encourageSome1 on Oct 12, 2024, 11:12 AM
Quote from: Nevereatrice on Oct 12, 2024, 10:41 AMGuess my horoscope : Life is short other ppl better don't make it difficult for me if not i x10 return like that chao ceca.

Scorpio or Sagittarius ?
Actually I don't believe horo at all but I play guess game with didi meimei only
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