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Title: I also feel disillusioned about work and life
Post by: Imboredtodeath on Mar 12, 2024, 10:26 AM
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Title: Re: I also feel disillusioned about work and life
Post by: Imboredtodeath on Mar 12, 2024, 10:55 AM
@Shiori  :frown:  :frown:  :frown:
Title: Re: I also feel disillusioned about work and life
Post by: daryl76 on Mar 12, 2024, 11:14 AM
its normal to feel this way at times
perhaps u need a mate, ask your jhb tenant if she needs one
Title: Re: I also feel disillusioned about work and life
Post by: Arctic on Mar 12, 2024, 11:20 AM
Me too.....
But parents still ard so I have to act happy in front of them
Title: Re: I also feel disillusioned about work and life
Post by: Keeptrucking on Mar 12, 2024, 11:25 AM
Very common once we hit 40s and bigger life issues like family's health, work and relationships come in.

You are not alone
Title: Re: I also feel disillusioned about work and life
Post by: Imboredtodeath on Mar 12, 2024, 11:54 AM
Quote from: daryl76 on Mar 12, 2024, 11:14 AMits normal to feel this way at times
perhaps u need a mate, ask your jhb tenant if she needs one

I no like her she no like me   :s39:

Hope she faster siam so i can have my own life back
Title: Re: I also feel disillusioned about work and life
Post by: daryl76 on Mar 12, 2024, 12:08 PM
Quote from: default on Mar 12, 2024, 11:54 AMI no like her she no like me   :s39:

Hope she faster siam so i can have my own life back

your place so convenient, dun think she wanna go lol

sometimes one can find life so stagnant, dunno what to look for and what to live for even... even for ppl with family

find someone to talk to, speak up and speak out

Title: Re: I also feel disillusioned about work and life
Post by: Risa on Mar 12, 2024, 12:20 PM
what to do...
Title: Re: I also feel disillusioned about work and life
Post by: encourageSome1 on Mar 12, 2024, 12:38 PM
Quote from: peaceheart on Mar 12, 2024, 11:20 AMMe too.....
But parents still ard so I have to act happy in front of them
Why own parents hv to act or pretend ? My bro told me jus don share ur unsolvable things to them cos they ll worry n can't help .. if not happy i think its ok they knew or uds .. family is for that .. family is ppl who uds us a lot and still care enuf abt us to say us ..

 esp if we sometimes can't see open and alws self pity
or

Tk it upon ourselves a certain thing cannot be solved


There is a saying 当局者迷 旁观者清
Sometimes we get too embroiled and can't focus on the key things and get sad or delulu but our besties or family can come n scold some sense into us .. which we all need every now and then
Title: Re: I also feel disillusioned about work and life
Post by: encourageSome1 on Mar 12, 2024, 12:40 PM
Quote from: default on Mar 12, 2024, 11:54 AMI no like her she no like me   :s39:

Hope she faster siam so i can have my own life back
ppl won't right from start don't like or like someone de

Must be something she do or behave that makes u not at ease or not ok with her .. but still each human diff background n living patterns .. it's normal for another human not to like us n vice versa .. a) try to close one eye

B) we also need ppl to accept our irritating quirks n patterns

C) everyone also different from us 99% it's usual to be uncomfortable... all humans need 磨合期

Title: Re: I also feel disillusioned about work and life
Post by: encourageSome1 on Mar 12, 2024, 12:42 PM
Quote from: daryl76 on Mar 12, 2024, 11:14 AMits normal to feel this way at times
perhaps u need a mate, ask your jhb tenant if she needs one
Got a partner would only double agony double happiness.. problem still exists de la
Title: Re: I also feel disillusioned about work and life
Post by: Arctic on Mar 12, 2024, 12:52 PM
Quote from: EncourageSome1 on Mar 12, 2024, 12:38 PMWhy own parents hv to act or pretend ? My bro told me jus don share ur unsolvable things to them cos they ll worry n can't help .. if not happy i think its ok they knew or uds .. family is for that .. family is ppl who uds us a lot and still care enuf abt us to say us ..

 esp if we sometimes can't see open and alws self pity
or

Tk it upon ourselves a certain thing cannot be solved


There is a saying 当局者迷 旁观者清
Sometimes we get too embroiled and can't focus on the key things and get sad or delulu but our besties or family can come n scold some sense into us .. which we all need every now and then

Your own brother also said dun share unsolvable things to parents which is in a way also acting happy in front of them. No difference

报喜不报忧 in general
Title: Re: I also feel disillusioned about work and life
Post by: daryl76 on Mar 12, 2024, 12:57 PM
Quote from: EncourageSome1 on Mar 12, 2024, 12:42 PMGot a partner would only double agony double happiness.. problem still exists de la


thats why marriages break down, lol

some ppl still learning how to be a parent, a partner... even me
Title: Re: I also feel disillusioned about work and life
Post by: Chao seng on Mar 12, 2024, 01:16 PM
Congratulations..u have reach that age to feel this way..

Achievement unlocked!


CheerS!!!😉
Title: Re: I also feel disillusioned about work and life
Post by: Bardiel on Mar 12, 2024, 01:35 PM
do the bare minimal and do what u r happy in life.

i give up how ppl judge me. i am near mid 30s. i still play g ame and watch anime. my wifu also dont care cos she also say do what u happy can liao

but balance abit between me and wifu. sometime do things she like, for example watch certain movie or show with her. shopping etc
Title: Re: I also feel disillusioned about work and life
Post by: encourageSome1 on Mar 12, 2024, 01:41 PM
Quote from: daryl76 on Mar 12, 2024, 12:57 PMthats why marriages break down, lol

some ppl still learning how to be a parent, a partner... even me

i think everything needs to be learnt.. yea even how to be a good parent for yr child .. each child also different.. yea ..each partner also different.. to be good at anyth .. will need effort n time and care
Title: Re: I also feel disillusioned about work and life
Post by: Imboredtodeath on Mar 12, 2024, 01:50 PM
Quote from: daryl76 on Mar 12, 2024, 12:08 PMyour place so convenient, dun think she wanna go lol

sometimes one can find life so stagnant, dunno what to look for and what to live for even... even for ppl with family

find someone to talk to, speak up and speak out



Quote from: daryl76 on Mar 12, 2024, 12:08 PMyour place so convenient, dun think she wanna go lol

sometimes one can find life so stagnant, dunno what to look for and what to live for even... even for ppl with family

find someone to talk to, speak up and speak out


ya see hw bah. A lot of things no point thinking ahead also

Title: Re: I also feel disillusioned about work and life
Post by: daryl76 on Mar 12, 2024, 02:47 PM
Quote from: default on Mar 12, 2024, 01:50 PMya see hw bah. A lot of things no point thinking ahead also



dun even know tomorrow can wake up or not lol
Title: Re: I also feel disillusioned about work and life
Post by: daryl76 on Mar 12, 2024, 02:49 PM
Quote from: EncourageSome1 on Mar 12, 2024, 01:41 PMi think everything needs to be learnt.. yea even how to be a good parent for yr child .. each child also different.. yea ..each partner also different.. to be good at anyth .. will need effort n time and care

tell me abt it
same factory some more but my 3 kids are very different

treat each of them must be different also


Title: Re: I also feel disillusioned about work and life
Post by: Imboredtodeath on Mar 12, 2024, 10:13 PM
Quote from: daryl76 on Mar 12, 2024, 02:49 PMtell me abt it
same factory some more but my 3 kids are very different

treat each of them must be different also



If all same then world peaceful liao
Title: Re: I also feel disillusioned about work and life
Post by: encourageSome1 on Mar 12, 2024, 10:15 PM
Quote from: daryl76 on Mar 12, 2024, 02:49 PMtell me abt it
same factory some more but my 3 kids are very different

treat each of them must be different also




It's our differences that makes the world fun interesting and colorful and exciting  :angel2:  :s36:  :s12:  :frosty:  :hearts:  :spin:  :flash:  :bandit:
Title: Re: I also feel disillusioned about work and life
Post by: 氰化钾 KCN on Mar 13, 2024, 07:38 AM
认真的话 你就输了
Title: Re: I also feel disillusioned about work and life
Post by: Enimen on Mar 13, 2024, 07:43 AM
sic sic
Title: Re: I also feel disillusioned about work and life
Post by: Risa on Mar 13, 2024, 07:50 AM
no wonder i already gone crazy
Title: Re: I also feel disillusioned about work and life
Post by: drdoof on May 01, 2024, 07:16 AM
 :s12: this thread for labour day.
Life is Work work work work work work wtf...what is our labour union doing? Running a membership club and supermarket and insurance
Title: Re: I also feel disillusioned about work and life
Post by: Imboredtodeath on May 01, 2024, 08:27 AM
Quote from: drdoof on May 01, 2024, 07:16 AM:s12: this thread for labour day.
Life is Work work work work work work wtf...what is our labour union doing? Running a membership club and supermarket and insurance

 :s13:  :s13:  :s13:
Title: Re: I also feel disillusioned about work and life
Post by: Imboredtodeath on May 01, 2024, 08:27 AM
Dont know whr is my hwz sarcastic icon
Title: Re: I also feel disillusioned about work and life
Post by: 氰化钾 KCN on May 01, 2024, 04:16 PM
Study hard get good job/pay
Work hard climb corporate ladder
Mil$ HDB & condo
Cpf

All are lies.




Title: Re: I also feel disillusioned about work and life
Post by: Imboredtodeath on May 01, 2024, 05:43 PM
 :s8:  :s8:  :s8:  :s8:  :s8:  :s8:
Title: Re: I also feel disillusioned about work and life
Post by: Imboredtodeath on May 01, 2024, 07:18 PM
Quote from: PP the FORTUNE God on Mar 13, 2024, 07:38 AM认真的话 你就输了

U are very right leh. I totally agree
Title: Re: I also feel disillusioned about work and life
Post by: drdoof on May 02, 2024, 07:39 AM
要学会认假 :flash:
Title: Re: I also feel disillusioned about work and life
Post by: Philipkee on May 02, 2024, 08:28 AM
Quote from: PP the FORTUNE God on May 01, 2024, 04:16 PMStudy hard get good job/pay
Work hard climb corporate ladder
Mil$ HDB & condo
Cpf

All are lies.





Actually I heard the boh tak che are better of in this respect.  Cos they don't have much expectations placed on them so they are freer to explore what they want.
Title: Re: I also feel disillusioned about work and life
Post by: 氰化钾 KCN on May 02, 2024, 06:23 PM
Quote from: Philipkee on May 02, 2024, 08:28 AMActually I heard the boh tak che are better of in this respect.  Cos they don't have much expectations placed on them so they are freer to explore what they want.


True. It is all about what we want in life. What do you want? 3 meals in a hawker ctr, food court or restaurant?
Title: Re: I also feel disillusioned about work and life
Post by: jim889 on May 02, 2024, 06:30 PM
join pappy rah sure pave way for good life
 :frown:
Title: Re: I also feel disillusioned about work and life
Post by: 雨过天晴 on May 03, 2024, 12:15 AM
Quote from: daryl76 on Mar 12, 2024, 12:57 PMthats why marriages break down, lol

some ppl still learning how to be a parent, a partner... even me


learn simi, she already sex object liao
Title: Re: I also feel disillusioned about work and life
Post by: Imboredtodeath on May 03, 2024, 02:06 AM
Sometimes u ever feel that u are sidelined because u are truly beh kan and nothing else?
Title: Re: I also feel disillusioned about work and life
Post by: jim889 on May 03, 2024, 05:27 AM
Quote from: default on May 03, 2024, 02:06 AMSometimes u ever feel that u are sidelined because u are truly beh kan and nothing else?

dont worry of being sideline as long as pay keep cuming in.. all's good
 :flash:
Title: Re: I also feel disillusioned about work and life
Post by: Imboredtodeath on May 03, 2024, 06:10 AM
Quote from: jim889 on May 03, 2024, 05:27 AMdont worry of being sideline as long as pay keep cuming in.. all's good
 :flash:

Are u contented being second third or fourth fiddle?

As in sidelined coz u dont suck up or they just view u not as good but capability wise maybe u dont lose out? Would u leave in this situation?
Title: Re: I also feel disillusioned about work and life
Post by: jim889 on May 03, 2024, 06:40 AM
Quote from: default on May 03, 2024, 06:10 AMAre u contented being second third or fourth fiddle?

As in sidelined coz u dont suck up or they just view u not as good but capability wise maybe u dont lose out? Would u leave in this situation?

just continue to take chiur pay while being sideline

then think of wat chiu can do on the side
get 2 income..

kompany think they screwing chiu.. think rike that chiu will quit but chiu have the last laff..

dont ever leave the kompnay by chiur self eg resign. let them make chiu retrench.. get $$$

chiur life.. chiu control
 :flash: 
Title: Re: I also feel disillusioned about work and life
Post by: Imboredtodeath on May 03, 2024, 06:55 AM
Quote from: jim889 on May 03, 2024, 06:40 AMjust continue to take chiur pay while being sideline

then think of wat chiu can do on the side
get 2 income..

kompany think they screwing chiu.. think rike that chiu will quit but chiu have the last laff..

dont ever leave the kompnay by chiur self eg resign. let them make chiu retrench.. get $$$

chiur life.. chiu control
 :flash: 

 :flash:  :flash:  :flash:  :flash:
Title: Re: I also feel disillusioned about work and life
Post by: drdoof on May 03, 2024, 07:33 AM
Quote from: default on May 03, 2024, 06:10 AMAre u contented being second third or fourth fiddle?

As in sidelined coz u dont suck up or they just view u not as good but capability wise maybe u dont lose out? Would u leave in this situation?
Lie flat until coy retrech chiu. Only leave if the environment too toxic making chiu feel suicidal. :flash:
Title: Re: I also feel disillusioned about work and life
Post by: jim889 on May 03, 2024, 07:43 AM
Quote from: drdoof on May 03, 2024, 07:33 AMLie flat until coy retrech chiu. Only leave if the environment too toxic making chiu feel suicidal. :flash:


ah jim ka li gong.. lun.. dun leave without retrench
 :flash:
Title: Re: I also feel disillusioned about work and life
Post by: needsomeadvice on May 03, 2024, 01:24 PM
Quote from: jim889 on May 03, 2024, 07:43 AMah jim ka li gong.. lun.. dun leave without retrench
 :flash:


Moi always also hope for package  :love:  :love:
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