I realised if nv go out for long and if go crowded places like orchard during weekends i will feel anxiety kicking in
Damn crowded and sian
Quote from: default on Aug 03, 2024, 05:41 PMI realised if nv go out for long and if go crowded places like orchard during weekends i will feel anxiety kicking in
I alws anxious if I need to talk to someone new and I need them to do something they aren't inclined to do .. but after 1-2 try I ll be ok
Even if when I was at school time cip, ask me knock resident door for ask for newspapers or magazines or old clothes I also paisei although 2 week ago school had given them notices
Now same thing but when I help my fren deliver letters for 2 kids where they get bursary .. cos I wasn't asking favours but was inviting them to know good news then anxiety much lesser
Ytd I went one of the east side malls I nearly heart attack in my brain cos 9999 ppl gushing out from all different spots in e mall ... now .. town is not scary .. heartlands r v v scary
Scared of ppl must interact more with ppl
Scared of ghost must interact more with ghosts
Scared of women go interact with women
Quote from: default on Aug 03, 2024, 05:41 PMI realised if nv go out for long and if go crowded places like orchard during weekends i will feel anxiety kicking in
U can go Somerset / older malls near Dhoby Ghaut side quite lesser traffic
Orchard central also few ppl
Malls surrounding smu area also not that crowded if non office hr
Quote from: Nevereatrice on Aug 03, 2024, 05:49 PMScared of ppl must interact more with ppl
Scared of ghost must interact more with ghosts
Scared of women go interact with women
knowing doesn't mean we motivated to do sthg
Sometimes we need some incident to blow up then diedie hv to do then we realise it s fear itself that s stopping us
Quote from: Nevereatrice on Aug 03, 2024, 05:49 PMScared of ppl must interact more with ppl
Scared of ghost must interact more with ghosts
Scared of women go interact with women
I used to be afraid to ask the scary Lian n bengs in sim lim or Bugis Junction when I need to buy sthg ..
age n experience n 999 tries really helps
Quote from: EncourageSome1 on Aug 03, 2024, 05:51 PMknowing doesn't mean we motivated to do sthg
Sometimes we need some incident to blow up then diedie hv to do then we realise it s fear itself that s stopping us
That's why they say step out of your comfort box
Quote from: Nevereatrice on Aug 03, 2024, 05:53 PMThat's why they say step out of your comfort box
Someone said it s not yr comfort zone
But yr habit zone
Even if it is suffering .. cos that s yr habit .. u thought it ll be ok to keep on at it
Quote from: EncourageSome1 on Aug 03, 2024, 05:55 PMSomeone said it s not yr comfort zone
But yr habit zone
Even if it is suffering .. cos that s yr habit .. u thought it ll be ok to keep on at it
It's different habit is forever yourself do something u funny like fort a change ts say he develope anxiety
Ts mix around with bangala too much should go Orchard more
Quote from: Nevereatrice on Aug 03, 2024, 05:58 PMIt's different habit is forever yourself do something u funny like fort a change ts say he develope anxiety
I think it's true for everyone
Just like tmr is back to school after 4 week holiday we also like want to die
Just like first day reporting to new school no friends coming along, don know what to expect .. what we ll do .. what we ll thk that kinda feeling
Quote from: Nevereatrice on Aug 03, 2024, 05:59 PMTs mix around with bangala too much should go Orchard more
I m gg to find bangla 's nx door my Indian work enemy turned work fren turn ordinary 🇮🇳 bff 👏🏿🐝🤗🤩
Quote from: Nevereatrice on Aug 03, 2024, 05:59 PMTs mix around with bangala too much should go Orchard more
In life I hv one bangla fren .. he gone back twice and come here got call n say I m here
But back then number no porting so finally he chg until I lost his number n contact alr .. if he happy n sound he ll be 6x yr old now
Quote from: EncourageSome1 on Aug 03, 2024, 05:59 PMI think it's true for everyone
Just like tmr is back to school after 4 week holiday we also like want to die
Just like first day reporting to new school no friends coming along, don know what to expect .. what we ll do .. what we ll thk that kinda feeling
Typo
It's different habit is force yourself do something u don't like for a change like watch kdraamas ts say he develope anxiety
Quote from: EncourageSome1 on Aug 03, 2024, 06:02 PMIn life I hv one bangla fren .. he gone back twice and come here got call n say I m here
But back then number no porting so finally he chg until I lost his number n contact alr .. if he happy n sound he ll be 6x yr old now
Huh how come u have bangala frrn?
Quote from: EncourageSome1 on Aug 03, 2024, 05:49 PMI alws anxious if I need to talk to someone new and I need them to do something they aren't inclined to do .. but after 1-2 try I ll be ok
Even if when I was at school time cip, ask me knock resident door for ask for newspapers or magazines or old clothes I also paisei although 2 week ago school had given them notices
Now same thing but when I help my fren deliver letters for 2 kids where they get bursary .. cos I wasn't asking favours but was inviting them to know good news then anxiety much lesser
Ytd I went one of the east side malls I nearly heart attack in my brain cos 9999 ppl gushing out from all different spots in e mall ... now .. town is not scary .. heartlands r v v scary
U nv go orchard on saturday like now. 313 somerset dunno what chagee like free like that queue super long
Quote from: Nevereatrice on Aug 03, 2024, 05:59 PMTs mix around with bangala too much should go Orchard more
Ya i think i go little no much anxiety leh why leh
Quote from: default on Aug 03, 2024, 06:11 PMYa i think i go little no much anxiety leh why leh
Go ktv open 2 martells tonight left hug right hug. Bao your anxiety dissappear auto cure
Quote from: Nevereatrice on Aug 03, 2024, 06:08 PMHuh how come u have bangala frrn?
Lkk work construction n maritime last time
Quote from: Nevereatrice on Aug 03, 2024, 06:18 PMGo ktv open 2 martells tonight left hug right hug. Bao your anxiety dissappear auto cure
Little india got ktv? I forgot to type india
Quote from: Nevereatrice on Aug 03, 2024, 06:18 PMGo ktv open 2 martells tonight left hug right hug. Bao your anxiety dissappear auto cure
Can blanja me bo. I bday soon
Quote from: default on Aug 03, 2024, 05:41 PMI realised if nv go out for long and if go crowded places like orchard during weekends i will feel anxiety kicking in
Do chiu feel trapped in crowded places :frown:
Only dulan when in crowded places......no personal space and ppl walk so slow etc
The hot weather makes the experience even worse
Quote from: Banned User on Aug 03, 2024, 06:25 PMDo chiu feel trapped in crowded places :frown:
Crowded lift and someone fart yes
Quote from: default on Aug 03, 2024, 06:10 PMU nv go orchard on saturday like now. 313 somerset dunno what chagee like free like that queue super long
Lkk go weekday evening so yea weekend Idk