3 c of compatibility

[encourageSome1]

Lazy afternoon read


RELATIONSHIPS / 19 JUNE 2018
The three Cs of compatibility

Words by WONG SIQI
Illustrated by NICOLE CHAN
     ...... a clearer picture of how I can better choose a partner – especially handy for when I'd be clouded by infatuation.

On the outer layer is chemistry. This is when you feel a connection. Maybe the both of you just get each other's jokes – you simply click. More often than not, people stop here and think it's love. But there's more to a relationship than chemistry, and it's important that we go beyond initial skin-deep attraction.

So, we also have character – the mental and moral qualities of an individual. It's the way he treats other people, his work and values in life. Character is how one reacts in a crisis and when no one is watching.

It is important to assess one's character before entering into a relationship because it determines how a person responds to difficult circumstances. And as a couple, there will definitely be difficult times ahead where love will be tested and patience tried.

Conflicts also tend to arise from differences in character. So wouldn't it be great to find someone who has similar values? Not only will you have more to agree about, you'll be able to spur each other on!

Character is how one reacts in a crisis and when no one is watching.

Last but not least: The core. This refers to the belief systems and worldviews one holds. The core frames how a person interprets and responds to his reality and shapes what a person believes and what he's willing to believe. It shapes thoughts and actions.

Two people can have good values but very different takes on certain issues because of the worldviews they have. And this will have an impact on how a couple makes key decisions in their relationship. For example, what if an unborn baby is diagnosed with brain deformity? Do they then abort the child?

A worldview is like a roadmap for how to lead a life. Some think that life is all about having fun – a hedonistic take – while others view life as a preparation for eternity. How can a couple journey together when their definition and end destination of life is different?

These three Cs will either make or break a relationship. We need to walk into relationships with our eyes wide open.



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https://thirst.sg/three-cs/



My two wise happily married friends (one met once n agreed thru matchmaking .. one met thru free will and dated 1/ 2 yr and married love of his love )
match made one told me if both wants to mk it work they will .. if they don't , even 100% compatible also rs will fail .. what is ur Tk ?

[Arctic]

So zehzeh you attached liao?

Pls dun end up like mryang. Everyday post body language whatnot articles....

[No guessing game]

Chemistry is overrated
Character needs years to understand
Core needs years to know the truth.

Woman don't have years to know a person

[jim889]

Lazy afternoon read


RELATIONSHIPS / 19 JUNE 2018
The three Cs of compatibility

Words by WONG SIQI
Illustrated by NICOLE CHAN
    ...... a clearer picture of how I can better choose a partner – especially handy for when I'd be clouded by infatuation.

On the outer layer is chemistry. This is when you feel a connection. Maybe the both of you just get each other's jokes – you simply click. More often than not, people stop here and think it's love. But there's more to a relationship than chemistry, and it's important that we go beyond initial skin-deep attraction.

So, we also have character – the mental and moral qualities of an individual. It's the way he treats other people, his work and values in life. Character is how one reacts in a crisis and when no one is watching.

It is important to assess one's character before entering into a relationship because it determines how a person responds to difficult circumstances. And as a couple, there will definitely be difficult times ahead where love will be tested and patience tried.

Conflicts also tend to arise from differences in character. So wouldn't it be great to find someone who has similar values? Not only will you have more to agree about, you'll be able to spur each other on!

Character is how one reacts in a crisis and when no one is watching.

Last but not least: The core. This refers to the belief systems and worldviews one holds. The core frames how a person interprets and responds to his reality and shapes what a person believes and what he's willing to believe. It shapes thoughts and actions.

Two people can have good values but very different takes on certain issues because of the worldviews they have. And this will have an impact on how a couple makes key decisions in their relationship. For example, what if an unborn baby is diagnosed with brain deformity? Do they then abort the child?

A worldview is like a roadmap for how to lead a life. Some think that life is all about having fun – a hedonistic take – while others view life as a preparation for eternity. How can a couple journey together when their definition and end destination of life is different?

These three Cs will either make or break a relationship. We need to walk into relationships with our eyes wide open.



———
https://thirst.sg/three-cs/



My two wise happily married friends (one met once n agreed thru matchmaking .. one met thru free will and dated 1/ 2 yr and married love of his love )
match made one told me if both wants to mk it work they will .. if they don't , even 100% compatible also rs will fail .. what is ur Tk ?

TOO LONG DIDNT READ

any summary?

[encourageSome1]

TOO LONG DIDNT READ

any summary?

Chemistry
Character
Core
These three Cs will either make or break a relationship. We need to walk into relationships with our eyes wide open.

What s ur Tk ?

[jim889]

Chemistry
Character
Core
These three Cs will either make or break a relationship. We need to walk into relationships with our eyes wide open.

What s ur Tk ?

secks reh?
 

[GhostZM]

Wah no need Condo, Cash and Car?


CheerS!!!😉

[jim889]

Wah no need Condo, Cash and Car?


CheerS!!!😉

credit card and country club member
 

[GhostZM]

credit card and country club member
 

These 2 nothing special to me..


CheerS!!!😉

[jim889]

These 2 nothing special to me..


CheerS!!!😉

sho chiu wat member
 

[GhostZM]

sho chiu wat member
 

Positive People Club
Negative People Club
Realistic People Club


CheerS!!!😉

[jim889]

Positive People Club
Negative People Club
Realistic People Club


CheerS!!!😉

there nose sauna, swimmming pool and golf course
 

[GhostZM]

there nose sauna, swimmming pool and golf course
 

Not interested in golf or sauna..my condo estate got swimming pool liao


CheerS!!!😉

[jim889]

Not interested in golf or sauna..my condo estate got swimming pool liao


CheerS!!!😉

wow chiu jin lich reh stayed in condo..
but chiu use the swimming pool often or notch?
 

[GhostZM]

wow chiu jin lich reh stayed in condo..
but chiu use the swimming pool often or notch?
 

Parents' one lah..
Sad..I dun use it much..I need to swim more often soon.


CheerS!!!😉