Today bring my father to ttsh for appt

[defiant]

Damn pek cek

[Suntan]

Spend more time as much as you can or soon you will no longer have the chance.

[defiant]

Spend more time as much as you can or soon you will no longer have the chance.

I know but damn pek cek and frustration coz i cleaned up his pee and shit. Not used to it. Not easy to be nurse or in elderly care

[Suntan]

I know but damn pek cek and frustration coz i cleaned up his pee and shit. Not used to it. Not easy to be nurse or in elderly care

We all need to go thru this tough period. It's the only time we bother to really spend time with them or most of the time busy at work. Now mine all gone liao. All of them come back once in a while in moi dream only.

[defiant]

coz trying to get his urine sample but he cannot stand so need to sit down then i need to change coz he pee all over. i know what u mean not he wants lah

then earlier call grab he suddenly say he needs to shit so i have to cancel it, bring him to toilet and then he do his biz all over then i have to bring him back to ward

then i got weak stomach/gastric so i buay tahan keep retching

[Mummy1234]

coz trying to get his urine sample but he cannot stand so need to sit down then i need to change coz he pee all over. i know what u mean not he wants lah

then earlier call grab he suddenly say he needs to shit so i have to cancel it, bring him to toilet and then he do his biz all over then i have to bring him back to ward

then i got weak stomach/gastric so i buay tahan keep retching

How old is yr father?

I think if my mum next time like that, I need a maid to help her.

[Suntan]

coz trying to get his urine sample but he cannot stand so need to sit down then i need to change coz he pee all over. i know what u mean not he wants lah

then earlier call grab he suddenly say he needs to shit so i have to cancel it, bring him to toilet and then he do his biz all over then i have to bring him back to ward

then i got weak stomach/gastric so i buay tahan keep retching

This period will pass....Be patient.
Before you know it, it's over.

[jim889]

coz trying to get his urine sample but he cannot stand so need to sit down then i need to change coz he pee all over. i know what u mean not he wants lah

then earlier call grab he suddenly say he needs to shit so i have to cancel it, bring him to toilet and then he do his biz all over then i have to bring him back to ward

then i got weak stomach/gastric so i buay tahan keep retching

chiu need to get maid
 

[defiant]

How old is yr father?

I think if my mum next time like that, I need a maid to help her.

u hire maid but it's not easy for maid also. it's tough for us how u think it's easy for maid esp they nv work in such settings before?

at nursing home at least if one of the dr/nurses pissed off, others can tell him/her off, ask the person to go rest a while and take over

[lithium carbonate]

i think maid got no blood relation wont do properly

[defiant]

This period will pass....Be patient.
Before you know it, it's over.

i know, i dont want it to be but it's difficult on the patient itself

we all have to go thru this

somemore im pek cek at work and at personal life

[Mummy1234]

If my mum like that, she cannot stay with my bro, he won't be able to help her. Will bring her to my place where I have a maid that can help her. I don't think old people like to go nursing home. They prefer own home as far as possible.

Anyway, my maid levy also going up as kid turning 16 soon. If got elderly, levy stays at S$60 instead of S$300.

[Mummy1234]

i think maid got no blood relation wont do properly

Must get those trained in elderly care.

[defiant]

If my mum like that, she cannot stay with my bro, he won't be able to help her. Will bring her to my place where I have a maid that can help her. I don't think old people like to go nursing home. They prefer own home as far as possible.

Anyway, my maid levy also going up as kid turning 16 soon. If got elderly, levy stays at S$60 instead of S$300.

no one likes to. but my mum passed on and im only child. i poor and no money also

my house only got 2 rooms not like yours damn big and got many rooms

[Mummy1234]

no one likes to. but my mum passed on and im only child. i poor and no money also

my house only got 2 rooms not like yours damn big and got many rooms

Tough on you. Hang in there! Jiayou!