What is the next thing u planning to learn ?

[Imboredtodeath]

I tried tangping almost 2 years, bth lei. Maybe because I don't have interest back then

U whr got tangping 2 yrs? U were tking care of ur dad. After that another 6 mths or less?

Anyway i will say most people dont have that mentality to tang ping. We are too caught up in rat race.

Must be totally give up like tiongs then maybe can

[BuiBuiForeverAlone]

U whr got tangping 2 yrs? U were tking care of ur dad. After that another 6 mths or less?

Anyway i will say most people dont have that mentality to tang ping. We are too caught up in rat race.

Must be totally give up like tiongs then maybe can

Unemployed more than 6 mths is bai lan i think
If still working is tang ping

[炎杀黑龙波]

I tried tangping almost 2 years, bth lei. Maybe because I don't have interest back then

Tan ping and Bai lan is diff!

Tan ping need strong $ or leech parents, in sg no $ cannot carry it out.

Bai lan mean while is working full time and drawing full salary but full time jiak Zua in the job

[炎杀黑龙波]

Unemployed more than 6 mths is bai lan i think
If still working is tang ping

Opposite actually lie flat is work part time / no work

Bai lan is work full time eat snake full time, Tio pok then just find new place to rot

[Imboredtodeath]

Unemployed more than 6 mths is bai lan i think
If still working is tang ping

But she nv tk fr parents and got contribute la. So technically not tang ping not bai lan and not 啃老.

Like half tang ping at most

[Chao seng]

Wah bro. You sweet talk skills no gf is a waste.

Perhaps this kind of talk is the exact reason why I have no gf 😂😂


CheerS!!!😉

[老曾记]

U whr got tangping 2 yrs? U were tking care of ur dad. After that another 6 mths or less?

Anyway i will say most people dont have that mentality to tang ping. We are too caught up in rat race.

Must be totally give up like tiongs then maybe can

True. When I'm not working I consider myself tangping.
I develop anxiety from lack of income.

[老曾记]

Perhaps this kind of talk is the exact reason why I have no gf 😂😂


CheerS!!!😉

I think u can open a class and teach people how to sweet talk.

[BuiBuiForeverAlone]

Opposite actually lie flat is work part time / no work

Bai lan is work full time eat snake full time, Tio pok then just find new place to rot

But she nv tk fr parents and got contribute la. So technically not tang ping not bai lan and not 啃老.

Like half tang ping at most

My bad. I got both of the terms mixed up.

[BuiBuiForeverAlone]

Tan ping and Bai lan is diff!

Tan ping need strong $ or leech parents, in sg no $ cannot carry it out.

Bai lan mean while is working full time and drawing full salary but full time jiak Zua in the job

Now i am confused lol.
i tot tang ping means do the bare minimum at work/outside of work. And bai lan is, for example, i lost moi job/i resigned from moi job and i am not going to find a proper job because it's difficult to land on a new fulltime job. Both cases is also not putting effort but bai lan seems to be worse no?

Those who choose to "lie flat" may lower their professional commitment and economic ambitions, simplify their goals, while still being fiscally productive for their own essential needs, and prioritize psychological health over economic materialism.

bai lan, which means "to actively embrace a deteriorating situation, rather than trying to turn it around". Basically, it refers to a voluntary retreat from pursuing certain goals because individuals realize they are simply too difficult to achieve.

[Imboredtodeath]

thats why their definition quite shitty

[炎杀黑龙波]

Now i am confused lol.
i tot tang ping means do the bare minimum at work/outside of work. And bai lan is, for example, i lost moi job/i resigned from moi job and i am not going to find a proper job because it's difficult to land on a new fulltime job. Both cases is also not putting effort but bai lan seems to be worse no?

Lie flat is do minimal, can don't work then don't work, else if cannot don't do then do part time, whatever is the minimal to survive.

Bai lan is as the quoted msg say whatever bad stuff happen, embrace it instead of trying to do better
In job context = project failing, just let it fail, cannot promote then don't promote just cruise along.
So basically if you see people who rot at work, they are people who bai lan

[frogcalls]

Ideally we hope to continue learning as we age but with kids might be very challenging. Your best bet is after they started working.

Actually for me to learn this skill, is hoping to change job eventually. Guess by then, too old liao

[Imboredtodeath]

I also thinking of picking up skills for current job and potential new job. But which job will want to take above 40s as newbie?

Even in healthcare say u do a career switch, end up u jiak sai waste time and money and cannot go back previous industry

Say u study to be nurse. Minimum need diploma if not degree.. that will be minimum total like 3.5 to 4 yrs.

Come out who want old nurse?

Same like doctor or the-rapist. U want a 45 yo or 50 yo junior dr?

[BuiBuiForeverAlone]

I also thinking of picking up skills for current job and potential new job. But which job will want to take above 40s as newbie?

Even in healthcare say u do a career switch, end up u jiak sai waste time and money and cannot go back previous industry

Say u study to be nurse. Minimum need diploma if not degree.. that will be minimum total like 3.5 to 4 yrs.

Come out who want old nurse?

Same like doctor or the-rapist. U want a 45 yo or 50 yo junior dr?

Prepare to do jobs such as security guard if low ses and change career