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What should I do? Or not do?

Started by 老曾记, Feb 02, 2025, 10:39 PM

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老曾记

I have a friend A (guy) and friend B (girl).

Me and them are friends since intern period. Both are very nice people.
Friend A and friend B slowly become very close friend. Me not very close to both of them in comparison.

A later come out do own biz.
Jio B to help out a short while before B officially goes Aussie to work.

After B finished with helping A. She went to Aussie and reduced contacting A.

When B come back, she Jio me and other friends for lunch, she mentioned her unhappiness with A when she was working with A.

When I met A. A asked me how come B never contact him, isit because she had a better life in Aussie so abandon the friends in SG.

Although I know some of the things that B complained about A. But B did not tell A directly.

So I hinted to A by asking, did he had any disagreement with B during his work since that's their final contact. He said no, everything went well. So I stopped at that.

I hope they patch back as friends but it seems B just wan to ghost A and not talk to him anymore. A always asking me why B not contacting him, but when I ask A to ownself contact. He dont wan. And I stopped at that.

It is a precious friendship just gone like this.

If it is u in my shoes, will u do anything or leave it the way it is? I'm thinking, for A, ignorance is bliss right. Knowing it will just make him more depressed.
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老曾记

A dunno B very irritated with him.

She said if he really wants to know the reason why she never talk to him. He should personally talk to her.
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老曾记

I hope he gets some closure on this ending friendship. At least he wouldn't keep questioning himself why B ignoring him.
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老曾记

As I grow I realised not every relationships (romance or not) can be patched. And it's sad.
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炎杀黑龙波

Just ignore, from the fact that A refuse to contact B first already show that A is not totally ignorant of what is going on.

He's just using you for whatever agenda he have, if you move wrong step you might lose the friendship of B
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Arctic

Heck care, ownself take care ownself
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Chao seng

It's between A and B..

I dun see the need for you to intervene..

Friends come and go in different stages of life..if they truly appreciate their friendship, they will do something abt it eventually.


CheerS!!!😉
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Be Kind To Your Children. Don't Have Any.

BuiBuiForeverAlone

Just ignore and let it be. The friendship is between A and B. If chiu chup ji kar it becomes complicated like office politics and your relationship with both A and B might turn sour.
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