Blame DINKs for sg future?

[Arctic]

https://forums.hardwarezone.com.sg/threads/those-dinks-can-pawn-future-generations.7101382/

Din think of why sg is not conducive to have children?

[BuiBuiForeverAlone]

https://forums.hardwarezone.com.sg/threads/those-dinks-can-pawn-future-generations.7101382/

Din think of why sg is not conducive to have children?

Dinks are doing the right thing here. Not to bring a kid to this wretched world to suffer and continue this vicious cycle.

[BuiBuiForeverAlone]

Maybe bbfas upset that dinks can get bto flats easier than them so become crab mentality and sinkie pwn sinkie.

[Arctic]

Maybe bbfas upset that dinks can get bto flats easier than them so become crab mentality and sinkie pwn sinkie.

It's more like those married with children ppl are more dulan with DINKs. Bbfa afaik are chill with it

[Tuna Seng]

Expensive no additional money for kids
Rather have car big house big cash reserves in bank
Kid have to Compete with aliens
Miw import aliens until overflow

[Arctic]

Expensive no additional money for kids
Rather have car big house big cash reserves in bank
Kid have to Compete with aliens
Miw import aliens until overflow

Having children is like a luxury these day. Ever have a parent who told me have children is cheap

I just arm chio and smile. If his definition of cheap is just providing a shelter and food then yah, I kind of agree with him. No tuition, no overseas trips, no fancy toys for children etc

[Imboredtodeath]

actually have kids is rly a super big gamble. u cannot confirm he/she will turn out ok.

i mean just averagely ok without health problems, mental problems, attitude problems, study problems....... adult problems

as more people get married older a lot are no longer fertile and coupled with the above, many are afraid also.

if u have kids need to have 2 so the other one got companion and also u cannot confirm 1 will screw up or not

then if u have 2 also possibility will abandon u

a lot of unknowns tbh

depends on how u look at it...... even the so-called windfall so ur kid so damn smart become doctor/lawyer, still need to compete with AI and he/she might not be filial at all

the costs involved really is very big as mentioned in hwz........ if ur kid is zai u probably still need to spend 200k onwards on him or her. if buay zai means double or more

times are tougher now, when ur kid grows up that's 18-21 yrs later

[Tuna Seng]

Having children is like a luxury these day. Ever have a parent who told me have children is cheap

I just arm chio and smile. If his definition of cheap is just providing a shelter and food then yah, I kind of agree with him. No tuition, no overseas trips, no fancy toys for children etc

Children need to invest one no such thing as let him grow up naturally. To them have children it's just to fulfill life process

[Arctic]

Children need to invest one no such thing as let him grow up naturally. To them have children it's just to fulfill life process

Yup, fulfil life process but theirs not their children's and that is already a mistake to begin with

"I want to experience parenthood", "I want to etc". It's all from their perspective. I. me , myself



As opposed to someone helping the underprivileged, it's more about the other party/parties - they and them

[BuiBuiForeverAlone]

Having children is like a luxury these day. Ever have a parent who told me have children is cheap

I just arm chio and smile. If his definition of cheap is just providing a shelter and food then yah, I kind of agree with him. No tuition, no overseas trips, no fancy toys for children etc

If raising a child means just providing shelter and food, then paiseh the parent is a narcissistic char siew. Not much different to raising a pet.

[Arctic]

actually have kids is rly a super big gamble. u cannot confirm he/she will turn out ok.

i mean just averagely ok without health problems, mental problems, attitude problems, study problems....... adult problems

as more people get married older a lot are no longer fertile and coupled with the above, many are afraid also.

if u have kids need to have 2 so the other one got companion and also u cannot confirm 1 will screw up or not

then if u have 2 also possibility will abandon u

a lot of unknowns tbh

depends on how u look at it...... even the so-called windfall so ur kid so damn smart become doctor/lawyer, still need to compete with AI and he/she might not be filial at all

the costs involved really is very big as mentioned in hwz........ if ur kid is zai u probably still need to spend 200k onwards on him or her. if buay zai means double or more

times are tougher now, when ur kid grows up that's 18-21 yrs later

Parents won't think so much. They thot everything will happen naturally and happily for them, their children will be the exception and make it big in life
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