Friends in their 30s to 40s having midlife crisis

[Keeptrucking]

More like quiet quitting

Isn't most ppl the same? Bogged down by family at 30s and later, even if bbfa, as one aged, definitely will be slower to pick up new stuff. However, capitalist society expect us to be better in all areas as one become older

yeah and then as your salary and age increase, and your ability to put more effort and time at work decreases due to family commitments, the company will start looking at younger folks with lesser pay.

worse is if your skillset and experience are not as valued or are quite easy to find in many job seekers.

[No guessing game]

Successful career is part of "life's luck" predestined i believe  can't force one

[Arctic]

Successful career is part of "life's luck" predestined i believe  can't force one

Life itself is largely dependent on  luck

[Keeptrucking]

i agree, luck plays a huge part. who you meet (that can help you), who your boss is, the company you work in, the department you are in... all play a role in how you do in life.

and you cannot choose a lot of those things.

you may not be very good at what you do, but if you are under the right boss or company you may just do very well.

[No guessing game]

i agree, luck plays a huge part. who you meet (that can help you), who your boss is, the company you work in, the department you are in... all play a role in how you do in life.

and you cannot choose a lot of those things.

you may not be very good at what you do, but if you are under the right boss or company you may just do very well.

Like u will be very successful in corporate life no do business de ming. I got one uncle is like this
He go see ba zi the master told him this but he never tell him how high his post what he do for a living
He is a evil serpent very high post but due to his lack of education already max hit ceiling. If he study high i think he top position liao.
But he go do business sure bankrupt.
 

[Keeptrucking]

Like u will be very successful in corporate life no do business de ming. I got one uncle is like this
He go see ba zi the master told him this but he never tell him how high his post what he do for a living
He is a evil serpent very high post but due to his lack of education already max hit ceiling. If he study high i think he top position liao.
But he go do business sure bankrupt.
 

how can no education hit high post as a civil serpent? your uncle must be quite old, and yeah, very lucky. right place, right time.

[default]

Successful career is part of "life's luck" predestined i believe  can't force one

Hmm i like that u admit to this.

Many people feel its their capability and whatnot but thats not the only factor. Even for billionaires a lot are due to luck and opportunity.

Of course need to learn things and make right decisions etc. But in absence of luck, which includes benefactors incl parents and how smart u are, ur circle of friends etc... more than likely will just be avg or even below avg because moving up is way harder than moving down

[default]

I went to master they say my life lack fire. And if do biz must do related with fire, like food, entertainment, teaching, oil, gas, electricity... even internet and computing they consider somewhat as fire.

They also say other things related to my current path

[No guessing game]

how can no education hit high post as a civil serpent? your uncle must be quite old, and yeah, very lucky. right place, right time.

how can no education hit high post as a civil serpent? your uncle must be quite old, and yeah, very lucky. right place, right time.

Can see his interpersonal skills very good. It's inept. Destined to succeed as corporate slave

[Arctic]

how can no education hit high post as a civil serpent? your uncle must be quite old, and yeah, very lucky. right place, right time.

Old Cs system O level can be in division 1 liao

After intro scholar system then become elitist

[Keeptrucking]

Old Cs system O level can be in division 1 liao

After intro scholar system then become elitist

well i guess those older generation if can have 'O' levels and above should be able to lead a decent life, esp if you choose to work in the civil service.

now degree also will hentataki.

[Arctic]

well i guess those older generation if can have 'O' levels and above should be able to lead a decent life, esp if you choose to work in the civil service.

now degree also will hentataki.

But last time Cs not well paid, iron bowl thou

Now is well paid, work life balance etc but no longer iron rice bowl. Many contract based

I'm no expert but sg is too focused on degree and white collar jobs. In the end too many degree mills and low paying white collar jobs and totally disregarding blue collar jobs which imo is also impt

[jim889]

But last time Cs not well paid, iron bowl thou

Now is well paid, work life balance etc but no longer iron rice bowl. Many contract based

I'm no expert but sg is too focused on degree and white collar jobs. In the end too many degree mills and low paying white collar jobs and totally disregarding blue collar jobs which imo is also impt

tell next generation ceca begree same as sg begree.. huai study so much

actually gotch one loop hole...  go ceca study loh koon cum back here be loh koon since loh koon hard to get in in sg

 

[No guessing game]

tell next generation ceca begree same as sg begree.. huai study so much

actually gotch one loop hole...  go ceca study loh koon cum back here be loh koon since loh koon hard to get in in sg

 

No wor sinkie go ceca get degree come back vs south Asian with ceca degree come here the local hr here will judge u differently wor.
 hr here will be sinkies pawn sinkie scrutinize from psle til uni cert

[jim889]

No wor sinkie go ceca get degree come back vs south Asian with ceca degree come here the local hr here will judge u differently wor.
 hr here will be sinkies pawn sinkie scrutinize from psle til uni cert

uptron moar valuable than ntu/nus