If there is a next life, will u choose back the same parents again?

[老曾记]

I know this qn sounds absurd and we totally cannot choose parents. What my friend told me has set me thinking.

She is not old but she bought a niche beside her Dad and Mum. She says her Dad wished to find her when she passed on in future. That's why she bought a niche side by side with them. I feel it's very sweet and sad at the same time.

[Arctic]

I'm OK but I'm not sure if they want me as their son again

[encourageSome1]

I know this qn sounds absurd and we totally cannot choose parents. What my friend told me has set me thinking.

She is not old but she bought a niche beside her Dad and Mum. She says her Dad wished to find her when she passed on in future. That's why she bought a niche side by side with them. I feel it's very sweet and sad at the same time.

I would love to choose my mom... and if I choose my mom then too bad she ll choose my pa then I hv to live with it lor 🥺🤔🫢 anyways ... ppl all hv our own shortcomings n faults ... mybfd

[Imboredtodeath]

I'm OK but I'm not sure if they want me as their son again

hmm ya for me is this. actually more of i think dont want to trouble them coz i rly farked up

[Arctic]

I know this qn sounds absurd and we totally cannot choose parents. What my friend told me has set me thinking.

She is not old but she bought a niche beside her Dad and Mum. She says her Dad wished to find her when she passed on in future. That's why she bought a niche side by side with them. I feel it's very sweet and sad at the same time.

Anyway, how long is the lease for a niche?

[Imboredtodeath]

Anyway, how long is the lease for a niche?

supposedly forever (at least till the lease of the temple gone)

the temple i went to, say maybe need to introduce lease nxt time

but hor u think about it, all these are money making tools. a lot of the ASK from our parents gen till even our gen and beyond, all rely on these to make money one

[老曾记]

Anyway, how long is the lease for a niche?

The niche in peck san theng is 55 years. If buy now, expiry in yr 2079.

[老曾记]

I'm OK but I'm not sure if they want me as their son again

I don't think my Dad wants me in his next life. I definitely wan to be my Mum's child again

[Arctic]

supposedly forever (at least till the lease of the temple gone)

the temple i went to, say maybe need to introduce lease nxt time

but hor u think about it, all these are money making tools. a lot of the ASK from our parents gen till even our gen and beyond, all rely on these to make money one

Hmm but lease is forever, the temple dun really make much out of it. I know some place got aircon somemore....

[encourageSome1]

I'm OK but I'm not sure if they want me as their son again

Hmm my pa said if he knew we become bbfa he wished he didn't hv me 😖

[encourageSome1]

hmm ya for me is this. actually more of i think dont want to trouble them coz i rly farked up

Wah why think like that .. i think 🤔 for moms .. the fact they delivered us from 9 mths of parasitic living in their wombs they loved us since we come to existence n hvt became who we d become

Even though i may be e least  successful human on earth but she says she sees us healthy n happy can alr . That s why my bro say if they can't help don t go around telling them everyth off ur mind

[drdoof]

No, cos moi parents treat me like their 冤亲债主

[jim889]

cannot choose one but they bring chiu to this world should noe how to 感恩

 

[Imboredtodeath]

cannot choose one but they bring chiu to this world should noe how to 感恩

 

i think not all parents are good just as not all kids are good

we cannot always assume

未经他人苦，莫劝他人善

[jim889]

i think not all parents are good just as not all kids are good

we cannot always assume

未经他人苦，莫劝他人善

no need to study/ no need to pass test can be parents

not all ppl are good parents.. but at least they bring chiu to this world..

this is not like taking driving test, all drivers are qualified to drive once they licenced but having a baybee no need licence..


just think of parenting is like driving when nose need to take driving test.. some ppl good. some ppl no good..  not all are the same