[Reddit SG] should i continue with marriage after infidelity?

[No guessing game]

Should I continue with marriage after infidelity?

Just found out that my wife cheated on me with her work colleague. Even before our marriage 2 years ago. Felt like a real idiot now..

Currently she is pregnant and claims that it's mine. I'm going to do a paternity test in the following weeks to determine if it's mine or not.

Question is, if it's mine, should I continue the marriage for the sake of the baby? But I know I could not look her in the eye anymore, the dynamic is broken and the upbringing of the baby will definitely be affected.

Anyone has similar experiences that can give some advice? I'm really very lost here and the thought of her sleeping with another man just disgusts me on all levels. I'm afraid I will not be a proper father to our baby in the future because my anger and hatred will always be lingering. I know the baby is innocent and has nothing to do with the situation. I just can't bear the thought of raising a child with someone who cheated on me..


Which edmwer is this?

[Arctic]

Wah no matter what he's on the losing end

I know someone in similar situation but he stay on in the marriage

[No guessing game]

Wah no matter what he's on the losing end

I know someone in similar situation but he stay on in the marriage

So despo for sex ah

[Banned User]

In NS already wear green helmet not enough ah...still kena wear green hat by wife.

[GhostZM]

Just divorce..

A broken trust will still have cracks after mending..

Hope dun get pwned by AWARE if this story is real..


CheerS!!!😉

[No guessing game]

In NS already wear green helmet not enough ah...still kena wear green hat by wife.

True love

[No guessing game]

Just divorce..

A broken trust will still have cracks after mending..

Hope dun get pwned by AWARE if this story is real..


CheerS!!!😉

divorce need to pay alimony to raise kid up Even if child not his? 😂

[Arctic]

Just divorce..

A broken trust will still have cracks after mending..

Hope dun get pwned by AWARE if this story is real..


CheerS!!!😉

AWARE can't do anything. WC is the killer

[GhostZM]

divorce need to pay alimony to raise kid up Even if child not his? 😂

Dunno..but doesn't make sense if the kid isn't his rite?

I would rather declare bankrupt if judge rule against me..


CheerS!!!😉

[GhostZM]

AWARE can't do anything. WC is the killer

Ah yeah..I meant to say WC..lol


CheerS!!!😉

[vezelover]

what a cuck, this kinda thing also need to consider meh? straight divorce.

[nyvrem]

1 day pack bags up and quit SG silently

go find siambu and YOLO

[Philipkee]

divorce need to pay alimony to raise kid up Even if child not his? 😂

Heard before NO NEED but IF you never do DNA test and when child is born and then you put your name as the father, then you must

[Philipkee]

Dunno..but doesn't make sense if the kid isn't his rite?

I would rather declare bankrupt if judge rule against me..


CheerS!!!😉

Can I be Forced to Maintain a Child Even Though I am not the Parent?
I'm not a parent. Can the court still force me to pay for a child's maintenance?

Yes. The court may make you liable for the maintenance of someone else's child if the child has been accepted as a member of your family, and if the father or mother of the child fails to maintain him/her.

How do I know if I accepted a child as a member of my family?

The most obvious way that a non-parent accepts a child is through an express declaration. Besides this, s 70 of the Women's Charter focuses on the quality of the relationship between the non-parent and the child to decide.

Strong indicators which previous cases have showed include changing the child's surname to that of yours, encouraging the child to address you as "dad" or "mom", including the child in family outings.

What if I thought the child was mine, but later found out he/she wasn't?

The court may still find that you have accepted the child, as a member of your family, even if you assumed parental responsibility on the basis of facts that later turned out to be false.

However, it is possible that the court will not find acceptance in exceptional situations involving fraudulent conduct.

https://www.gjclaw.com.sg/articles/can-forced-maintain-child-even-though-not-parent/

[jim889]

Should I continue with marriage after infidelity?

Just found out that my wife cheated on me with her work colleague. Even before our marriage 2 years ago. Felt like a real idiot now..

Currently she is pregnant and claims that it's mine. I'm going to do a paternity test in the following weeks to determine if it's mine or not.

Question is, if it's mine, should I continue the marriage for the sake of the baby? But I know I could not look her in the eye anymore, the dynamic is broken and the upbringing of the baby will definitely be affected.

Anyone has similar experiences that can give some advice? I'm really very lost here and the thought of her sleeping with another man just disgusts me on all levels. I'm afraid I will not be a proper father to our baby in the future because my anger and hatred will always be lingering. I know the baby is innocent and has nothing to do with the situation. I just can't bear the thought of raising a child with someone who cheated on me..


Which edmwer is this?

since he have evidnece better get out

wait tio pwn by aware