Everytime i v lazy to visit

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My father at nursing home. Visit liao feel sad. Dont visit feel guilty

[Arctic]

Very far is it?

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Very far is it?

Its quite near but need to take bus and walk abt 5min la.

But when i visit i always have to bring drinks and snacks. Sometimes also a meal or hot coffee

Then have to take grab.

I think coz im damn sian of my life going nowhr thats why

[Banned User]

Its quite near but need to take bus and walk abt 5min la.

But when i visit i always have to bring drinks and snacks. Sometimes also a meal or hot coffee

Then have to take grab.

I think coz im damn sian of my life going nowhr thats why

How's chiur relationship with chiur dad? If gd then should visit more. If no gd then visit less frequently 

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How's chiur relationship with chiur dad? If gd then should visit more. If no gd then visit less frequently 

Hmm hes considered a good father bah.

Last time always quarrel with him when im younger la

[jim889]

Hmm hes considered a good father bah.

Last time always quarrel with him when im younger la

see gotch chan can bring him home or not lor
 

[Banned User]

see gotch chan can bring him home or not lor
 

Not easy to be the sole caregiver for parent with dementia

[jim889]

Not easy to be the sole caregiver for parent with dementia

tee bee said gotch the something link can appry? gotch 80% suckseelee ?
 

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see gotch chan can bring him home or not lor
 

very hard honestly... house v small and i also no money and even if hire caregiver also really not easy to manage

thats why i so pek cek everything is falling apart

bring him back a few days every few mths i try to do that

[jim889]

very hard honestly... house v small and i also no money and even if hire caregiver also really not easy to manage

thats why i so pek cek everything is falling apart

bring him back a few days every few mths i try to do that

yeah bring him back every now and then ish best solution lor
 

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yeah bring him back every now and then ish best solution lor
 

ya got my own personal and work issues to deal with. very sick of life honestly

[Arctic]

Hmm hes considered a good father bah.

Last time always quarrel with him when im younger la

I always quarrel with my father when I'm younger too. Guess that's a normal phase og life

[encourageSome1]

My father at nursing home. Visit liao feel sad. Dont visit feel guilty

My question / motivator to U is
If U know this is yr last few days with yr pa .. and Ur last chance u missed it cos U were lazy..
Should choose what U d not regret if tmr is last day of earth ...

If go.. treat as an excursion for u n him.. set this time apart for him just 1.5-2 h a week or week ish ...
If Ur mindset changes it wouldn't feel so hard

If U don't.. then it s just another chore to be checked off 😭

[daryl76]

My father at nursing home. Visit liao feel sad. Dont visit feel guilty

visit lah, its sad indeed cos we will feel so helpless and useless at times when we see him

but still is our one and only papa mah

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visit lah, its sad indeed cos we will feel so helpless and useless at times when we see him

but still is our one and only papa mah

last time u good w ur father boh, as in younger time before u got children