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Quote from: peaceheart on Sep 04, 2024, 11:42 AMAll our tng lang tradition so expensive and toxic, rather dun celebrate and let it die


used to be a time to gather after harvest season
Enjoy sweet cakes
Appreciate moon light
Appreciate cool mid autumn tgt
Now it's just ownself do own thing


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Quote from: EncourageSome1 on Sep 04, 2024, 01:37 PMused to be a time to gather after harvest season
Enjoy sweet cakes
Appreciate moon light
Appreciate cool mid autumn tgt
Now it's just ownself do own thing




Nowadays it's just an excuse to go out and have fun, drink , spend money buy branded (cny, xmas etc)

Else just a day to haolian about your life to others

encourageSome1

Quote from: peaceheart on Sep 04, 2024, 01:46 PMNowadays it's just an excuse to go out and have fun, drink , spend money buy branded (cny, xmas etc)

Else just a day to haolian about your life to others
Many like that
It's our own choice ba
Don't let others affect us
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Quote from: EncourageSome1 on Sep 04, 2024, 03:33 PMMany like that
It's our own choice ba
Don't let others affect us


How to not be affected or not attend at all?

eg. cny all haolian but I still go to give grandparents and parents face. Wedding, class reunions too. Some can avoid but some unavoidable
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Quote from: peaceheart on Sep 04, 2024, 03:36 PMHow to not be affected or not attend at all?

eg. cny all haolian but I still go to give grandparents and parents face. Wedding, class reunions too. Some can avoid but some unavoidable
Hmm 🤔 for lkk now I old Liao
My skin thick alr
A lot of events I go if I wish to give someone face or happiness by my presence
Else I really mia

Cny I go show face 1/2-1 h I hi bye with everyone I go off alr
My mom my bros everyday I still see so ok mah they cute ..
my pa not cute but cny give him face cos everyone is there

Wedding I try to selectively go but I hv plenty gd frens their kid marry so lkk mybf hv to go

Class reunion I go 50% of them if there r 1-2 bff there going usually go or not not impt nah
All lkk Liao nthg to compare .. compare who got more than white hair or who can go overseas shake leg more I also not envy
I thk I m immortal level mindset alr
As long as I m healthy fit and feeling gd
Other ppl show off me anyth
I just look on like viewing museum n say thanks , it looks gd !
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Quote from: EncourageSome1 on Sep 04, 2024, 03:41 PMHmm 🤔 for lkk now I old Liao
My skin thick alr
A lot of events I go if I wish to give someone face or happiness by my presence
Else I really mia

Cny I go show face 1/2-1 h I hi bye with everyone I go off alr
My mom my bros everyday I still see so ok mah they cute ..
my pa not cute but cny give him face cos everyone is there

Wedding I try to selectively go but I hv plenty gd frens their kid marry so lkk mybf hv to go

Class reunion I go 50% of them if there r 1-2 bff there going usually go or not not impt nah
All lkk Liao nthg to compare .. compare who got more than white hair or who can go overseas shake leg more I also not envy
I thk I m immortal level mindset alr
As long as I m healthy fit and feeling gd
Other ppl show off me anyth
I just look on like viewing museum n say thanks , it looks gd !


I also dun attend weddings, reunions and even cny liao. Funerals also dun go

Just this year alone,  1 fren passed on and afaik, nobody in the groupchat went to the wake despite everyone talking about it. Some trying to arrange while some claimed to be busy, overseas. I went alone.

Just last week, a bmt mate passed on and I fwd the news to another groupchat. This time nobody even bother to talk about it. Not even a " huh? What happened ?"

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Quote from: Nevereatrice on Sep 04, 2024, 03:55 PMhttps://s.lazada.sg/s.1S6th

$30 double yolk. Deliver to your house

Ownself eat or as a gift? If as a gift then too cheap liao....must give all the branded hotel and whatnot ones

If ownself eat still ok but a bit too much for 1 pax
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Quote from: peaceheart on Sep 04, 2024, 06:04 PMI also dun attend weddings, reunions and even cny liao. Funerals also dun go

Just this year alone,  1 fren passed on and afaik, nobody in the groupchat went to the wake despite everyone talking about it. Some trying to arrange while some claimed to be busy, overseas. I went alone.

Just last week, a bmt mate passed on and I fwd the news to another groupchat. This time nobody even bother to talk about it. Not even a " huh? What happened ?"
As we age ppl grow more n more self preoccupied so when we hv limited willpower n energy , we prioritise a few and let everyth else go

Yr bmt mate is one of the non prioritised issue so rest of team didn't go for his
N more impt .. they hv a rs w him
Not w his family so going or not don't mk much of diff
But ! If he s close fren n someone he care abt pass on, then coming to offer some support is helpful : my feel

For me wedding can skip means I don't feel as close to this human
If I go usu it's good fren kid or good fren
Most of my bff or married alr or expired so hardly get married
It's their little ones that do

Funeral if close fren loved ones hv to go cos usu 1-2 days
Don't go then just miss la
Just give bereavement $ better than nthg
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Quote from: Nevereatrice on Sep 04, 2024, 03:55 PMhttps://s.lazada.sg/s.1S6th

$30 double yolk. Deliver to your house

Review look good though many seem to be fr other non mooncake products wor

If I want I will thk can Tikam buy one try
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Quote from: EncourageSome1 on Sep 03, 2024, 12:44 AMWe all like this

Tng lang tradition gone w our gen alr

There's a lot of carrot chopping and sterilization happening in Singapore during festive season, while in Malaysia, people are taking a more relaxed approach so there is still a traditional festive atmosphere. Can light off fireworks freely somemore.
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Quote from: Banned User on Sep 16, 2024, 12:17 PMThere's a lot of carrot chopping and sterilization happening in Singapore during festive season, while in Malaysia, people are taking a more relaxed approach so there is still a traditional festive atmosphere. Can light off fireworks freely somemore.

True we r much sterile env also cos we r much controlled
No fire crackers cos of fire fear
No kongming light 🕯� cos of Airplanes
No too much sugar cos diabetes problem
No too oily cos obesity problem
No elderly people much cos all stay tiny HDB
No single income family cos col high we need work to support our family n own parent(s) 

It's not one thg but it s all e tiny things
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Wait for after mooncake festival jump down sale

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Quote from: Nevereatrice on Sep 16, 2024, 01:59 PMWait for after mooncake festival jump down sale

Oily smell no longer same
If u hv dog 🐕 nose 👃 like me u won't enjoy
But if u like my pa everyth also like expired flavor then u can enjoy post 16th of lunar eighth month na
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Quote from: EncourageSome1 on Sep 16, 2024, 03:33 PMOily smell no longer same
If u hv dog 🐕 nose 👃 like me u won't enjoy
But if u like my pa everyth also like expired flavor then u can enjoy post 16th of lunar eighth month na

Wa u atas mouth... I am garang guni


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