Everytime i v lazy to visit

[jim889]

ya got my own personal and work issues to deal with. very sick of life honestly

just take it easy rah

find new jod if not heypi with jod
 

[雨过天晴]

how long more to live? cherish wor.. if not lorry already how?

[daryl76]

last time u good w ur father boh, as in younger time before u got children

not really, hahahahaha we were never close

cos my parents very old school type, dad go earn money and mom takes care of the family

[BuiBuiForeverAlone]

not really, hahahahaha we were never close

cos my parents very old school type, dad go earn money and mom takes care of the family

Same.In moi case Mom tank all the parenting duties. No comments on Dad. 冷到不能在冷了

[daryl76]

Same.In moi case Mom tank all the parenting duties. No comments on Dad. 冷到不能在冷了

very old school traditional type of parenting i guess

like i always tell ny kids, dun make the same mistake... its ok to make them, its not if we repeat them

so now me and wife both have a fair share of responsibility

[Imboredtodeath]

not really, hahahahaha we were never close

cos my parents very old school type, dad go earn money and mom takes care of the family

same same la but u got siblings. maybe some siblings close to father some to mum

[Imboredtodeath]

Same.In moi case Mom tank all the parenting duties. No comments on Dad. 冷到不能在冷了

how 冷?

my father usually always go out hang out with clan association and friends last time (usually to play mahjong or go jiak ho liao)....... got stay home after work la. then he usually works half days on saturday. his time no leave one i very peifu him.

last time i a bit look down on him since he doesnt make much money and not educated... really is after NS then mindset grow up more. coz when young we compare to other fathers mah, why this father got car or got van, this father knows how to talk to the son, this father knows how to play with the son

coz the boss makan their leave. only when they got serious issues like sick, or wan to go overseas then must apply

when im younger (pri sch all up to younger sec sch) he got bring me out on sundays and always got buy small snacks home, or durians la. after that grow old liao, rebellious period not close to mum and dad

the only thing is he nv study very high so cant communicate much except talk in teochew. even so, his teochew quite limited

thats why hes still a good father la, B- or B maybe

i think good enough liao lor. i was quite fucked up son. honestly i would give myself a C. when I became older then it's more like a C or C+........ not trying to be humble but i rly damn fucked up lol

i think if i ever become a father i also wont get B or higher. best probably C+ or B-

even now when i visit him he see me unhappy he will say why i look sad, he will stand up for me. thats why no matter what he's a good father.

but he also is always all talk no action dont dare to stand up for himself because he is not good at talking. but everyone loves him coz he polite and 爽快 kind of person... neighbours and people in the neighbourhood all know him and will greet him coz he always greets them

[BuiBuiForeverAlone]

how 冷?

my father usually always go out hang out with clan association and friends last time (usually to play mahjong or go jiak ho liao)....... got stay home after work la. then he usually works half days on saturday. his time no leave one i very peifu him.

last time i a bit look down on him since he doesnt make much money and not educated... really is after NS then mindset grow up more. coz when young we compare to other fathers mah, why this father got car or got van, this father knows how to talk to the son, this father knows how to play with the son

coz the boss makan their leave. only when they got serious issues like sick, or wan to go overseas then must apply

when im younger (pri sch all up to younger sec sch) he got bring me out on sundays and always got buy small snacks home, or durians la. after that grow old liao, rebellious period not close to mum and dad

the only thing is he nv study very high so cant communicate much except talk in teochew. even so, his teochew quite limited

thats why hes still a good father la, B- or B maybe

i think good enough liao lor. i was quite fucked up son. honestly i would give myself a C. when I became older then it's more like a C or C+........ not trying to be humble but i rly damn fucked up lol

i think if i ever become a father i also wont get B or higher. best probably C+ or B-

even now when i visit him he see me unhappy he will say why i look sad, he will stand up for me. thats why no matter what he's a good father.

but he also is always all talk no action dont dare to stand up for himself because he is not good at talking. but everyone loves him coz he polite and 爽快 kind of person... neighbours and people in the neighbourhood all know him and will greet him coz he always greets them

冷 as in there is hardly any communication between my Dad and I. He keep quiet, i also keep quiet and we myob. Not the 冷战 kind of 冷。 Hard to relate to my Dad as there is hardly any father son bonding. Afterall he was the sole breadwinner. I also had rebel against my dad when i was younger.

[Imboredtodeath]

in the end everytime is i stand up for him and my mum against authorities (no la as in no trouble w them but any communications will go thru me)

then if quarrel with relatives or neighbours end up is me standing up for myself and them

so ya B- for him lor

but C or C- for me as a son

[BuiBuiForeverAlone]

in the end everytime is i stand up for him and my mum against authorities (no la as in no trouble w them but any communications will go thru me)

then if quarrel with relatives or neighbours end up is me standing up for myself and them

so ya B- for him lor

but C or C- for me as a son

i'd also grade myself 'C' (Charsiew)
Dad didn't stand up for me, and neither do I.

[daryl76]

same same la but u got siblings. maybe some siblings close to father some to mum

yeah in a way
my dad always closer to my sis

though i spent the most time with him towards the end

[Suntan]

Life is so unpredictable. Before you know it, even if you want to see him, you will not be able too. Not much time left for you & him to spend time together. Treasure the limited time now.