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Title: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: needsomeadvice on Apr 08, 2024, 03:01 PM
is it need to go church every sunday and give money mthly?  :frown:
Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: jim889 on Apr 08, 2024, 03:15 PM
Quote from: needsomeadvice on Apr 08, 2024, 03:01 PMis it need to go church every sunday and give money mthly?  :frown:


why chiu wan to date them. ?

wat chiu said pruss..  chiu cannot hold joss sticks for chiur ancestors .

 :frown:



Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: needsomeadvice on Apr 08, 2024, 03:21 PM
Quote from: jim889 on Apr 08, 2024, 03:15 PMwhy chiu wan to date them. ?

wat chiu said pruss..  chiu cannot hold joss sticks for chiur ancestors .

 :frown:





matched a chio one and can talk  :frown:
Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: needsomeadvice on Apr 08, 2024, 03:41 PM
cannot hold joss stick ish sounds a bit rabak  :frown:
Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: Arctic on Apr 08, 2024, 03:45 PM
Nv dated a xtian girl before but I'm from a xtain school and know many xtian girls. They are not that staunch lah
Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: needsomeadvice on Apr 08, 2024, 04:02 PM
Quote from: peaceheart on Apr 08, 2024, 03:45 PMNv dated a xtian girl before but I'm from a xtain school and know many xtian girls. They are not that staunch lah

yea thinking maybe jio her out talk talk see how first  :frown:
Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: jim889 on Apr 08, 2024, 04:58 PM
Quote from: needsomeadvice on Apr 08, 2024, 04:02 PMyea thinking maybe jio her out talk talk see how first  :frown:

cannot piak b4 merry too.

anyway . 祝你好运

 :frown:
Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: sTiCkY on Apr 08, 2024, 05:52 PM
moi wan to piak so many xtians but moi scared jesus rape moi in my dreams
Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: nyvrem on Apr 08, 2024, 05:59 PM
moi catholic, moi wife catholic

no give marnee to church

if chu not x-tian/catholic, mai act hero go date one if u cannot follow their 'stuff'

 :crazy:
Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: needsomeadvice on Apr 08, 2024, 06:02 PM
Quote from: nyvrem on Apr 08, 2024, 05:59 PMmoi catholic, moi wife catholic

no give marnee to church
 :frown:  :frown:
if chu not x-tian/catholic, mai act hero go date one if u cannot follow their 'stuff'

 :crazy:
Hab simi stuff to followed? Trying to see if can follow or not but need to know what is needed mah  :frown:
Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: needsomeadvice on Apr 08, 2024, 06:08 PM
Can at least watch prawns and pcc bo if no sex  :s13: 
Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: jim889 on Apr 08, 2024, 06:10 PM
Quote from: needsomeadvice on Apr 08, 2024, 06:08 PMCan at least watch prawns and pcc bo if no sex  :s13: 


tiagong everything also can just cannot put insai
 :frown:
Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: nyvrem on Apr 08, 2024, 06:11 PM
Quote from: needsomeadvice on Apr 08, 2024, 06:02 PMHab simi stuff to followed? Trying to see if can follow or not but need to know what is needed mah  :frown:


go church on weekend, 1-3 hours burn

weekday go cell group, 1-2 hours burn

when got kids, must raise them as x-tian, must send them go sunday class etc.

many many hours burn, everyday listen to how everything good = the lord provides, everything bad = jesus is testing you

 :spin:  :spin:  :spin:
Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: encourageSome1 on Apr 08, 2024, 06:14 PM
Quote from: needsomeadvice on Apr 08, 2024, 03:01 PMis it need to go church every sunday and give money mthly?  :frown:

Hearsay they need time with God every weekend yea

Money is their own decision but they say this is a appreciation for what God gives them
Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: encourageSome1 on Apr 08, 2024, 06:16 PM
Quote from: nyvrem on Apr 08, 2024, 06:11 PMgo church on weekend, 1-3 hours burn

weekday go cell group, 1-2 hours burn

when got kids, must raise them as x-tian, must send them go sunday class etc.

many many hours burn, everyday listen to how everything good = the lord provides, everything bad = jesus is testing you

 :spin:  :spin:  :spin:
Yea lot of time .. spent on learning about God

Spent on learning abt self n other human n
human relationships

Spent on practicing kid n ownself character development..

Energy , time is v precious but good quality life is more precious ... it is abt ur priorities
Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: encourageSome1 on Apr 08, 2024, 06:16 PM
Quote from: needsomeadvice on Apr 08, 2024, 06:02 PMHab simi stuff to followed? Trying to see if can follow or not but need to know what is needed mah  :frown:

ask her when jus before u invite her to  become yr gf ?

Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: jim889 on Apr 08, 2024, 06:17 PM
Quote from: EncourageSome1 on Apr 08, 2024, 06:16 PMYea lot of time .. spent on learning about God

Spent on learning abt self n other human n
human relationships

Spent on practicing kid n ownself character development..

Energy , time is v precious but good quality life is more precious ... it is abt ur priorities


goed temple also need taim mah
:frown:
Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: encourageSome1 on Apr 08, 2024, 06:18 PM
Quote from: nyvrem on Apr 08, 2024, 05:59 PMmoi catholic, moi wife catholic

no give marnee to church

if chu not x-tian/catholic, mai act hero go date one if u cannot follow their 'stuff'

 :crazy:
I agree w op that if u don't agree , don't force yrself
If u don't agree earning capacity is from God , u r free as a guest and don't need to put ur "donation" as offering ..

Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: encourageSome1 on Apr 08, 2024, 06:19 PM
Quote from: jim889 on Apr 08, 2024, 06:17 PMgoed temple also need taim mah
:frown:

But to Christians .. it is like food every week must go n intake spiritual food

Temple goers ... usu go a few times a year .. or once a month or whenever they want to ask for stuff ... e context is viewed differently so the commitment level way diff wor
Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: needsomeadvice on Apr 08, 2024, 06:21 PM
Quote from: EncourageSome1 on Apr 08, 2024, 06:16 PMask her when jus before u invite her to  become yr gf ?


Here can asked things rike pcc or prawns or donations mah, don't know her so well yet :s13:  :s13:
Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: nyvrem on Apr 08, 2024, 06:22 PM
its a lifestyle change lah. must be prepared. for the more hardcore x-tian, u also must be prepared for their 'intrusiveness'

eg, if ur parents are Buddhist or go temple pray, ur x-tian wife might jjww say they are wrong and must be baptized etc. some hardcore x-tians no religious boundaries one.

say put statue of money god etc = worship idols etc. must remove.
Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: encourageSome1 on Apr 08, 2024, 06:24 PM
Quote from: jim889 on Apr 08, 2024, 06:10 PMtiagong everything also can just cannot put insai
 :frown:

My tiagong n yours diff eh

In se x  dept Christians follow everything can except u should not dishonor ur body because that belongs to u and God

In before two r married .. anyth that urges e couple to move towards se x  ,is reserved for married man n his wife , it should not happen

After they two married , each shall alws be bound to serve the other's needs first (including food shelter se x or any other humanly need)before they sought for ownself 's happiness.

Sounds crazy and unattainable : yea

But that s how Jesus made himself to be for those who follow him

And that s what he calls upon his followers to do.
Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: encourageSome1 on Apr 08, 2024, 06:25 PM
Quote from: needsomeadvice on Apr 08, 2024, 06:21 PMHere can asked things rike pcc or prawns or donations mah, don't know her so well yet :s13:  :s13:


Each human has great liberty we all share w u what we know n our own background/ knowledge
Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: encourageSome1 on Apr 08, 2024, 06:27 PM
Quote from: nyvrem on Apr 08, 2024, 06:22 PMits a lifestyle change lah. must be prepared. for the more hardcore x-tian, u also must be prepared for their 'intrusiveness'

eg, if ur parents are Buddhist or go temple pray, ur x-tian wife might jjww say they are wrong and must be baptized etc. some hardcore x-tians no religious boundaries one.

say put statue of money god etc = worship idols etc. must remove.
But ppl who r way extreme r v irritating 😠
Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: encourageSome1 on Apr 08, 2024, 06:30 PM
Quote from: jim889 on Apr 08, 2024, 03:15 PMwhy chiu wan to date them. ?

wat chiu said pruss..  chiu cannot hold joss sticks for chiur ancestors .

 :frown:





What I uds is if u r a Christian , u shd not worship other .. including other faiths or yr ancestors or other god

Reason God in the Bible says he does not allow his God status/ sovereignty to be assumed by others in yr life .. so understood
But rightfully whether u chg faith or not it's ur own free will ... one should not change ur convictions cos of u want to chase girl or for marriage
Should be only if u go n find out more abt Jesus n u found him legit n his faith legit then u decide u will or not follow him ... not cos of girl is of diff faith u want to be with her .. in e end this will be unbearable on yr part n unhappy de 
Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: needsomeadvice on Apr 08, 2024, 06:44 PM
Sankyew @jim889 and @EncourageSome1 and @nyvrem really insightful and helpful to help me decide what I can accept and what I can't before talking more abt this to her  :crazy:
Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: jim889 on Apr 08, 2024, 06:45 PM
Quote from: EncourageSome1 on Apr 08, 2024, 06:30 PMWhat I uds is if u r a Christian , u shd not worship other .. including other faiths or yr ancestors or other god

Reason God in the Bible says he does not allow his God status/ sovereignty to be assumed by others in yr life .. so understood
But rightfully whether u chg faith or not it's ur own free will ... one should not change ur convictions cos of u want to chase girl or for marriage
Should be only if u go n find out more abt Jesus n u found him legit n his faith legit then u decide u will or not follow him ... not cos of girl is of diff faith u want to be with her .. in e end this will be unbearable on yr part n unhappy de 

heypi jiu hao
:frown:
Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: jim889 on Apr 08, 2024, 06:46 PM
Quote from: needsomeadvice on Apr 08, 2024, 06:44 PMSankyew @jim889 and @EncourageSome1 , really insightful and helpful to help me decide what I can accept and what I can't before talking more abt this to her  :crazy:

祝你永远幸福快乐
 :flash:
Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: 老曾记 on Apr 08, 2024, 06:55 PM
Quote from: needsomeadvice on Apr 08, 2024, 04:02 PMyea thinking maybe jio her out talk talk see how first  :frown:

I always tot u are a girl.
Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: needsomeadvice on Apr 08, 2024, 07:01 PM
Quote from: luckyapple on Apr 08, 2024, 06:55 PMI always tot u are a girl.

No leh moi hab kkj one  :s34:
Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: encourageSome1 on Apr 08, 2024, 07:03 PM
Quote from: luckyapple on Apr 08, 2024, 06:55 PMI always tot u are a girl.

For me I alws assume all r boy . In e internet everyone is a man unless otherwise said or proven
Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: jim889 on Apr 08, 2024, 07:12 PM
Quote from: luckyapple on Apr 08, 2024, 06:55 PMI always tot u are a girl.

edmw default everybuttie is lao tiko pek.. huai chiu think he is girl?
 :s11:
Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: jim889 on Apr 08, 2024, 07:13 PM
Quote from: EncourageSome1 on Apr 08, 2024, 07:03 PMFor me I alws assume all r boy . In e internet everyone is a man unless otherwise said or proven

i always assume tat ppl who say they lkk are chiobu unless proven otherwise
 :frown:
Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: encourageSome1 on Apr 08, 2024, 07:26 PM
Quote from: jim889 link=msg=13803  date=1712574811i always assume tat ppl who say they lkk are chiobu unless proven otherwise
 :frown:
lkk 😤 now for hvg someone assuming my lkk status wrongly   :frown:

Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: nyvrem on Apr 08, 2024, 08:17 PM
Quote from: EncourageSome1 on Apr 08, 2024, 06:27 PMBut ppl who r way extreme r v irritating 😠


i mean, thats y u need go into an inter religious r/s with eyes wide open mah

cannot say love conquers all unless u planning to elope (my friend did that cause he marry muslim and her side of the family cannot accept him. so they moved to UK. the wife modern modern one. drink wine also.)

 :s13:  :s13:  :s13:
Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: nyvrem on Apr 08, 2024, 08:17 PM
Quote from: EncourageSome1 on Apr 08, 2024, 07:03 PMFor me I alws assume all r boy . In e internet everyone is a man unless otherwise said or proven

everyone online ish a GIRL rah

Guy
In
Real
Life

 :frown:  :frown:  :frown:
Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: nyvrem on Apr 08, 2024, 08:18 PM
Quote from: needsomeadvice on Apr 08, 2024, 06:44 PMSankyew @jim889 and @EncourageSome1 and @nyvrem really insightful and helpful to help me decide what I can accept and what I can't before talking more abt this to her  :crazy:

go with the flow lah. needs to have mutual respect for any r/s to grow.

good luck and dont tio pwn by WC

 :frown:  :frown:  :frown:
Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: 老曾记 on Apr 08, 2024, 08:27 PM
Quote from: jim889 on Apr 08, 2024, 07:12 PMedmw default everybuttie is lao tiko pek.. huai chiu think he is girl?
 :s11:

Got ppl says before she is a girl. In other thread or sth.
Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: jim889 on Apr 08, 2024, 08:30 PM
Quote from: luckyapple on Apr 08, 2024, 08:27 PMGot ppl says before she is a girl. In other thread or sth.

unless got photo chop and confirm, dun believe anything from internet rah
 :frown:

Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: encourageSome1 on Apr 08, 2024, 10:05 PM
Quote from: nyvrem on Apr 08, 2024, 08:17 PMi mean, thats y u need go into an inter religious r/s with eyes wide open mah

cannot say love conquers all unless u planning to elope (my friend did that cause he marry muslim and her side of the family cannot accept him. so they moved to UK. the wife modern modern one. drink wine also.)

 :s13:  :s13:  :s13:
For me , any bgr hv to start with eyes wide open cos I d alws treat that as my last n final rs so before / while evaluating should start should open eyes wide ..
inter faith or hv v big core value difference or character difference.. this two r bound to grow big or bigger issue as time lapses

Some ppl think eloping works .. this is provided they both r prepared to work it out till death do us part .. without any support from loved ones when any issue crop up.. in life .. health, mindset, financial , appearance any crisis of major change will and could come . If they will stick tgt till the end then good for them. Most ppl cannot , that s why marriage was a big thing involving so many ppl , including the law n even God to be witness for this two humans joining in a this life till forever promise
Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: nyvrem on Apr 08, 2024, 10:10 PM
Quote from: EncourageSome1 on Apr 08, 2024, 10:05 PMFor me , any bgr hv to start with eyes wide open cos I d alws treat that as my last n final rs so before / while evaluating should start should open eyes wide ..
inter faith or hv v big core value difference or character difference.. this two r bound to grow big or bigger issue as time lapses

Some ppl think eloping works .. this is provided they both r prepared to work it out till death do us part .. without any support from loved ones when any issue crop up.. in life .. health, mindset, financial , appearance any crisis of major change will and could come . If they will stick tgt till the end then good for them. Most ppl cannot , that s why marriage was a big thing involving so many ppl , including the law n even God to be witness for this two humans joining in a this life till forever promise


haiya

life so hard, stay single best rah

left hand will never betray right hand

 :frown:  :frown:  :frown:
Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: encourageSome1 on Apr 08, 2024, 10:12 PM
Quote from: nyvrem on Apr 08, 2024, 10:10 PMhaiya

life so hard, stay single best rah

left hand will never betray right hand

 :frown:  :frown:  :frown:
Yes .. in life anyth that is worthwhile is all difficult n tough to strive n maintain.. but it is the like gold star vs maybe our silver standard as bbfa
Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: Risa on Apr 09, 2024, 07:21 AM
never before and not interested in dating
Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: FireOpal on Apr 09, 2024, 11:11 AM
xtian girls good ah. Always can do anything on the bed. 
Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: nyvrem on Apr 09, 2024, 12:51 PM
Quote from: FireOpal on Apr 09, 2024, 11:11 AMxtian girls good ah. Always can do anything on the bed.

ya loh

got some like to kneel down and pray with both hands one

Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: needsomeadvice on Apr 19, 2024, 12:41 AM
Quote from: FireOpal on Apr 09, 2024, 11:11 AMxtian girls good ah. Always can do anything on the bed.

Quote from: nyvrem on Apr 09, 2024, 12:51 PMya loh

got some like to kneel down and pray with both hands one



hokay chiu two gave moi a lot of faith in the lord  :s13:  :s13:
Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: needsomeadvice on Apr 19, 2024, 01:19 AM
Quote from: jim889 on Apr 08, 2024, 03:15 PMwhy chiu wan to date them. ?

wat chiu said pruss..  chiu cannot hold joss sticks for chiur ancestors .

 :frown:





moi asked around riaos can hold joss sticks and she don't seem to be too extreme :frown:
Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: jim889 on Apr 19, 2024, 07:48 AM
Quote from: needsomeadvice on Apr 19, 2024, 01:19 AMmoi asked around riaos can hold joss sticks and she don't seem to be too extreme :frown:

if can then hokay roh go ahead and win her heart..

but chiu need to convert and go church weekly chiu can?
 :frown:
Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: needsomeadvice on Apr 19, 2024, 11:00 AM
Quote from: jim889 on Apr 19, 2024, 07:48 AMif can then hokay roh go ahead and win her heart..
but chiu need to convert and go church weekly chiu can?
 :frown:
Mybfd hope can make her scream oh my god before going to church every Sunday ba :crazy:
Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: jim889 on Apr 19, 2024, 11:01 AM
Quote from: needsomeadvice on Apr 19, 2024, 11:00 AMMybfd hope can make her scream oh my god before going to church every Sunday ba :crazy:


dun think can. they cannot piak before merry..
 :frown:
Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: GhostZM on Apr 19, 2024, 02:44 PM
Quote from: jim889 on Apr 19, 2024, 11:01 AMdun think can. they cannot piak before merry..
 :frown:

贤弟,几岁了还相信这个说法。


CheerS!!!;)
Title: Re: anyone date xtian girls before?
Post by: jim889 on Apr 19, 2024, 06:50 PM
Quote from: GhostZM on Apr 19, 2024, 02:44 PM贤弟,几岁了还相信这个说法。


CheerS!!!;)

我等她说"放进去"
 :flash:
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