Lazy afternoon read
RELATIONSHIPS / 19 JUNE 2018
The three Cs of compatibility
Words by WONG SIQI
Illustrated by NICOLE CHAN
...... a clearer picture of how I can better choose a partner – especially handy for when I'd be clouded by infatuation.
On the outer layer is chemistry. This is when you feel a connection. Maybe the both of you just get each other's jokes – you simply click. More often than not, people stop here and think it's love. But there's more to a relationship than chemistry, and it's important that we go beyond initial skin-deep attraction.
So, we also have character – the mental and moral qualities of an individual. It's the way he treats other people, his work and values in life. Character is how one reacts in a crisis and when no one is watching.
It is important to assess one's character before entering into a relationship because it determines how a person responds to difficult circumstances. And as a couple, there will definitely be difficult times ahead where love will be tested and patience tried.
Conflicts also tend to arise from differences in character. So wouldn't it be great to find someone who has similar values? Not only will you have more to agree about, you'll be able to spur each other on!
Character is how one reacts in a crisis and when no one is watching.
Last but not least: The core. This refers to the belief systems and worldviews one holds. The core frames how a person interprets and responds to his reality and shapes what a person believes and what he's willing to believe. It shapes thoughts and actions.
Two people can have good values but very different takes on certain issues because of the worldviews they have. And this will have an impact on how a couple makes key decisions in their relationship. For example, what if an unborn baby is diagnosed with brain deformity? Do they then abort the child?
A worldview is like a roadmap for how to lead a life. Some think that life is all about having fun – a hedonistic take – while others view life as a preparation for eternity. How can a couple journey together when their definition and end destination of life is different?
These three Cs will either make or break a relationship. We need to walk into relationships with our eyes wide open.
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https://thirst.sg/three-cs/
My two wise happily married friends (one met once n agreed thru matchmaking .. one met thru free will and dated 1/ 2 yr and married love of his love )
match made one told me if both wants to mk it work they will .. if they don't , even 100% compatible also rs will fail .. what is ur Tk ?
So zehzeh you attached liao?
Pls dun end up like mryang. Everyday post body language whatnot articles....
Chemistry is overrated
Character needs years to understand
Core needs years to know the truth.
Woman don't have years to know a person
Quote from: EncourageSome1 on Apr 06, 2024, 04:30 PMLazy afternoon read
RELATIONSHIPS / 19 JUNE 2018
The three Cs of compatibility
Words by WONG SIQI
Illustrated by NICOLE CHAN
...... a clearer picture of how I can better choose a partner – especially handy for when I'd be clouded by infatuation.
On the outer layer is chemistry. This is when you feel a connection. Maybe the both of you just get each other's jokes – you simply click. More often than not, people stop here and think it's love. But there's more to a relationship than chemistry, and it's important that we go beyond initial skin-deep attraction.
So, we also have character – the mental and moral qualities of an individual. It's the way he treats other people, his work and values in life. Character is how one reacts in a crisis and when no one is watching.
It is important to assess one's character before entering into a relationship because it determines how a person responds to difficult circumstances. And as a couple, there will definitely be difficult times ahead where love will be tested and patience tried.
Conflicts also tend to arise from differences in character. So wouldn't it be great to find someone who has similar values? Not only will you have more to agree about, you'll be able to spur each other on!
Character is how one reacts in a crisis and when no one is watching.
Last but not least: The core. This refers to the belief systems and worldviews one holds. The core frames how a person interprets and responds to his reality and shapes what a person believes and what he's willing to believe. It shapes thoughts and actions.
Two people can have good values but very different takes on certain issues because of the worldviews they have. And this will have an impact on how a couple makes key decisions in their relationship. For example, what if an unborn baby is diagnosed with brain deformity? Do they then abort the child?
A worldview is like a roadmap for how to lead a life. Some think that life is all about having fun – a hedonistic take – while others view life as a preparation for eternity. How can a couple journey together when their definition and end destination of life is different?
These three Cs will either make or break a relationship. We need to walk into relationships with our eyes wide open.
———
https://thirst.sg/three-cs/
My two wise happily married friends (one met once n agreed thru matchmaking .. one met thru free will and dated 1/ 2 yr and married love of his love )
match made one told me if both wants to mk it work they will .. if they don't , even 100% compatible also rs will fail .. what is ur Tk ?
TOO LONG DIDNT READ
any summary?
:frown:
Quote from: jim889 on Apr 06, 2024, 05:18 PMTOO LONG DIDNT READ
any summary?
:frown:
Chemistry
Character
Core
These three Cs will either make or break a relationship. We need to walk into relationships with our eyes wide open.
What s ur Tk ?
Quote from: EncourageSome1 on Apr 06, 2024, 05:32 PMChemistry
Character
Core
These three Cs will either make or break a relationship. We need to walk into relationships with our eyes wide open.
What s ur Tk ?
secks reh?
:frown:
Wah no need Condo, Cash and Car?
CheerS!!!😉
Quote from: GhostZM on Apr 06, 2024, 05:43 PMWah no need Condo, Cash and Car?
CheerS!!!😉
credit card and country club member
:frown:
Quote from: jim889 on Apr 06, 2024, 05:44 PMcredit card and country club member
:frown:
These 2 nothing special to me..
CheerS!!!😉
Quote from: GhostZM on Apr 06, 2024, 05:50 PMThese 2 nothing special to me..
CheerS!!!😉
sho chiu wat member
:frown:
Quote from: jim889 on Apr 06, 2024, 05:52 PMsho chiu wat member
:frown:
Positive People Club
Negative People Club
Realistic People Club
CheerS!!!😉
Quote from: GhostZM on Apr 06, 2024, 05:55 PMPositive People Club
Negative People Club
Realistic People Club
CheerS!!!😉
there nose sauna, swimmming pool and golf course
:frown:
Quote from: jim889 on Apr 06, 2024, 05:56 PMthere nose sauna, swimmming pool and golf course
:frown:
Not interested in golf or sauna..my condo estate got swimming pool liao
CheerS!!!😉
Quote from: GhostZM on Apr 06, 2024, 05:58 PMNot interested in golf or sauna..my condo estate got swimming pool liao
CheerS!!!😉
wow chiu jin lich reh stayed in condo..
but chiu use the swimming pool often or notch?
:s11:
Quote from: jim889 on Apr 06, 2024, 06:03 PMwow chiu jin lich reh stayed in condo..
but chiu use the swimming pool often or notch?
:s11:
Parents' one lah..
Sad..I dun use it much..I need to swim more often soon.
CheerS!!!😉
Quote from: GhostZM on Apr 06, 2024, 06:05 PMParents' one lah..
Sad..I dun use it much..I need to swim more often soon.
CheerS!!!😉
stay in condo ish 有钱人， dont matter who own it
:frown:
Quote from: peaceheart on Apr 06, 2024, 04:53 PMSo zehzeh you attached liao?
Pls dun end up like mryang. Everyday post body language whatnot articles....
I promise I won't post same or similar topic
Quote from: Nevereatrice on Apr 06, 2024, 05:17 PMChemistry is overrated
Character needs years to understand
Core needs years to know the truth.
Woman don't have years to know a person
men also don't hv 99 yrs to know ? :s34: :frown:
Quote from: GhostZM on Apr 06, 2024, 05:43 PMWah no need Condo, Cash and Car?
CheerS!!!😉
huh need all this thing a ?
Right human first
Rest of other stuff eg thing or nothing will come as is ?
Quote from: jim889 on Apr 06, 2024, 05:44 PMcredit card and country club member
:frown:
Everyone also hv some card today
Don't hv also hv fare card
Country club no need : all hv active sg club
Quote from: jim889 on Apr 06, 2024, 05:52 PMsho chiu wat member
:frown:
We non emptyUSee member
Quote from: jim889 on Apr 06, 2024, 05:56 PMthere nose sauna, swimmming pool and golf course
:frown:
we just need our hdb to hv sauna
Swimming can go ecp or Sentosa
Golf go next door , batam / msia welcome u
Quote from: jim889 on Apr 06, 2024, 06:39 PMi dun wan to join
:frown:
Nvm they nv invite me also .. they see me penguin lkk
Quote from: EncourageSome1 on Apr 06, 2024, 06:36 PMmen also don't hv 99 yrs to know ? :s34: :frown:
Men fall in love easily.
For me is lust at first sight
Quote from: Nevereatrice on Apr 06, 2024, 06:47 PMMen fall in love easily.
Mostly untrue .. but what does bbfa knows ?
Quote from: peaceheart on Apr 06, 2024, 07:16 PMFor me is lust at first sight
Mostly true for lot of us ?
Quote from: EncourageSome1 on Apr 06, 2024, 10:20 PMMostly untrue .. but what does bbfa knows ?
Mostly true for lot of us ?
It's true because i fall in love easily
Quote from: Nevereatrice on Apr 06, 2024, 10:22 PMIt's true because i fall in love easily
Good for u ner didi , hope u find One soon 💪🏿👏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿😍😍
Quote from: EncourageSome1 on Apr 06, 2024, 10:23 PMGood for u ner didi , hope u find One soon 💪🏿👏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿😍😍
Or is it fall in lust easily 😢
Quote from: Nevereatrice on Apr 06, 2024, 10:29 PMOr is it fall in lust easily 😢
Yea more likely correct
i cant even get chemistry when i talk to rcp
and some ppl say moi character suck