Damn pek cek
Spend more time as much as you can or soon you will no longer have the chance.
Quote from: Suntan on Mar 18, 2025, 01:09 PMSpend more time as much as you can or soon you will no longer have the chance.
I know but damn pek cek and frustration coz i cleaned up his pee and shit. Not used to it. Not easy to be nurse or in elderly care
Quote from: defiant on Mar 18, 2025, 01:33 PMI know but damn pek cek and frustration coz i cleaned up his pee and shit. Not used to it. Not easy to be nurse or in elderly care
We all need to go thru this tough period. It's the only time we bother to really spend time with them or most of the time busy at work. Now mine all gone liao. All of them come back once in a while in moi dream only.
coz trying to get his urine sample but he cannot stand so need to sit down then i need to change coz he pee all over. i know what u mean not he wants lah
then earlier call grab he suddenly say he needs to shit so i have to cancel it, bring him to toilet and then he do his biz all over then i have to bring him back to ward
then i got weak stomach/gastric so i buay tahan keep retching
Quote from: defiant on Mar 18, 2025, 02:26 PMcoz trying to get his urine sample but he cannot stand so need to sit down then i need to change coz he pee all over. i know what u mean not he wants lah
then earlier call grab he suddenly say he needs to shit so i have to cancel it, bring him to toilet and then he do his biz all over then i have to bring him back to ward
then i got weak stomach/gastric so i buay tahan keep retching
How old is yr father?
I think if my mum next time like that, I need a maid to help her.
Quote from: defiant on Mar 18, 2025, 02:26 PMcoz trying to get his urine sample but he cannot stand so need to sit down then i need to change coz he pee all over. i know what u mean not he wants lah
then earlier call grab he suddenly say he needs to shit so i have to cancel it, bring him to toilet and then he do his biz all over then i have to bring him back to ward
then i got weak stomach/gastric so i buay tahan keep retching
This period will pass....Be patient.
Before you know it, it's over.
Quote from: defiant on Mar 18, 2025, 02:26 PMcoz trying to get his urine sample but he cannot stand so need to sit down then i need to change coz he pee all over. i know what u mean not he wants lah
then earlier call grab he suddenly say he needs to shit so i have to cancel it, bring him to toilet and then he do his biz all over then i have to bring him back to ward
then i got weak stomach/gastric so i buay tahan keep retching
chiu need to get maid
:frown:
Quote from: Mummy1234 on Mar 18, 2025, 02:38 PMHow old is yr father?
I think if my mum next time like that, I need a maid to help her.
u hire maid but it's not easy for maid also. it's tough for us how u think it's easy for maid esp they nv work in such settings before?
at nursing home at least if one of the dr/nurses pissed off, others can tell him/her off, ask the person to go rest a while and take over
i think maid got no blood relation wont do properly
Quote from: Suntan on Mar 18, 2025, 03:22 PMThis period will pass....Be patient.
Before you know it, it's over.
i know, i dont want it to be but it's difficult on the patient itself
we all have to go thru this
somemore im pek cek at work and at personal life
If my mum like that, she cannot stay with my bro, he won't be able to help her. Will bring her to my place where I have a maid that can help her. I don't think old people like to go nursing home. They prefer own home as far as possible.
Anyway, my maid levy also going up as kid turning 16 soon. If got elderly, levy stays at S$60 instead of S$300.
Quote from: lithium carbonate on Mar 18, 2025, 03:54 PMi think maid got no blood relation wont do properly
Must get those trained in elderly care.
Quote from: Mummy1234 on Mar 18, 2025, 03:57 PMIf my mum like that, she cannot stay with my bro, he won't be able to help her. Will bring her to my place where I have a maid that can help her. I don't think old people like to go nursing home. They prefer own home as far as possible.
Anyway, my maid levy also going up as kid turning 16 soon. If got elderly, levy stays at S$60 instead of S$300.
no one likes to. but my mum passed on and im only child. i poor and no money also
my house only got 2 rooms not like yours damn big and got many rooms
Quote from: defiant on Mar 18, 2025, 04:02 PMno one likes to. but my mum passed on and im only child. i poor and no money also
my house only got 2 rooms not like yours damn big and got many rooms
Tough on you. Hang in there! Jiayou!
You have Eldershield pay out?
Quote from: Mummy1234 on Mar 18, 2025, 04:09 PMYou have Eldershield pay out?
dont think so... coz very hard to hit the 3 out of 5 or 6 tasks
i think the whole thing is scammy
Quote from: defiant on Mar 18, 2025, 04:32 PMdont think so... coz very hard to hit the 3 out of 5 or 6 tasks
Shower, mobilizing, dressing up all needs help. I think can qualify.
Quote from: 老曾记 on Mar 18, 2025, 06:25 PMShower, mobilizing, dressing up all needs help. I think can qualify.
ask default hire chiu :flash:
Quote from: 老曾记 on Mar 18, 2025, 06:25 PMShower, mobilizing, dressing up all needs help. I think can qualify.
honestly that one means very jialat liao, most wont be long after that. unless in exceptional circumstances like paralysed
so basically most wont be able to qualify that and if u calculate the annual premiums right
basically it's scam, imo
Quote from: jim889 on Mar 18, 2025, 06:44 PMask default hire chiu :flash:
uhm, u know how much are nurses or healthcare workers paid boh? compared to say helpers
they easily 2.5k upwards for most healthcare related positions or 3k and above
helpers less than 1k leh i no money u want to help top up?
anyway there is no default here
Quote from: defiant on Mar 18, 2025, 07:06 PMuhm, u know how much are nurses or healthcare workers paid boh? compared to say helpers
they easily 2.5k upwards for most healthcare related positions or 3k and above
helpers less than 1k leh i no money u want to help top up?
anyway there is no default here
nose need full time one mah . just few days or few hrs
:flash:
Quote from: jim889 on Mar 18, 2025, 07:10 PMnose need full time one mah . just few days or few hrs
:flash:
then few hrs or days the rest of the time leh? my father clean himself take care of himself :s22:
https://www.cpf.gov.sg/member/healthcare-financing/eldershield/eldershield-premiums
u all go see
it's like a damn fucking scam imo
up to 72 months payment of $400
u go count how many people pay and how many people manage to receive
how many people really in this state?
Nt ez being care giver. Will test patience one I think that arsenal85 got say before he is also a care giver to his demented elderly
Quote from: defiant on Mar 18, 2025, 07:22 PMthen few hrs or days the rest of the time leh? my father clean himself take care of himself :s22:
chiu clean lor
:flash:
Quote from: defiant on Mar 18, 2025, 10:24 PMhttps://www.cpf.gov.sg/member/healthcare-financing/eldershield/eldershield-premiums
u all go see
it's like a damn fucking scam imo
Collect money govt fast hand fast leg. When it comes to govt giving out support have many terms and conditions attached to it until it's very hard to qualify. Even if qualified the amount given also measly
Quote from: defiant on Mar 18, 2025, 10:26 PMup to 72 months payment of $400
u go count how many people pay and how many people manage to receive
how many people really in this state?
Many govt schemes are super profitable. It was reported govt collected alot of premiums and the claims was little.
Use regulations to force everyone to pay, when people need to do assessments and claims, make them look like dogs and beggars