Recently I realise I don't like to receive things from friends and others, new or used.
It's things that I never requested for and if I don't use it I will waste it. It makes me feel like I'm oweing them unnecessarily.
I don't mind dumpster diving for food that stuff that I think I can eat.
How to reject them nicely?
For anyone who believes in fengshui, after I don't keep so much things at home. My luck seems to improve.
I don't really believe in fengshui. But I noticed some correlation between messy home and bad luck.
Quote from: 老曾记 on Feb 25, 2025, 09:11 AMFor anyone who believes in fengshui, after I don't keep so much things at home. My luck seems to improve.
I don't really believe in fengshui. But I noticed some correlation between messy home and bad luck.
Maybe less cluttered place less cluttered mind. Im trying to clear old things also
Quote from: 老曾记 on Feb 25, 2025, 08:54 AMRecently I realise I don't like to receive things from friends and others, new or used.
It's things that I never requested for and if I don't use it I will waste it. It makes me feel like I'm oweing them unnecessarily.
I don't mind dumpster diving for food that stuff that I think I can eat.
How to reject them nicely?
That's so kind of you! However, I'm in a phase where I'm trying to reduce my possessions :flash:
I also dun like. Feels like i have to return them a favour later. Likewise for treats.
nope, never like
i dun celebrate birthdays
Quote from: No Guessing Game on Feb 25, 2025, 11:26 AMThat's so kind of you! However, I'm in a phase where I'm trying to reduce my possessions :flash:
I think this sounds good.
It depends
If from loved ones then of cos I like it
Then if it's a gift or treat with agenda then different story
just politely but firmly decline
Eat their food must work for them in the future