I think... Driving for me. Good skill to learn and deliver parcel in future, just in case.
jin satki drive merc to deliver food
Graduate diploma in mental health
Learn for recreation and interest only
None for work
learn to be a person without integrity
Quote from: 老曾记 on Feb 21, 2025, 05:16 PMI think... Driving for me. Good skill to learn and deliver parcel in future, just in case.
Be walker courier loh. I saw many FT at hdb void deck sorting and delivering parcels
Got license and deliver parcels is a waste. Be phv or personal chauffeur sua
Quote from: Shiori on Feb 21, 2025, 05:33 PMlearn to be a person without integrity
Must go temple learn
2023 I went to kms and the zen cafe. Partly cos it's raining so seek refuge there. The stuff so expensive!!
Dec 2024 I went but left after a while.
Quote from: Arctic on Feb 21, 2025, 05:35 PMMust go temple learn
2023 I went to kms and the zen cafe. Partly cos it's raining so seek refuge there. The stuff so expensive!!
Dec 2024 I went but left after a while.
temple teach people how to have no integrity ?
Quote from: Shiori on Feb 21, 2025, 05:38 PMtemple teach people how to have no integrity ?
Oh I misread
Why you want to be pia kia ah?
Quote from: 老曾记 on Feb 21, 2025, 05:16 PMI think... Driving for me. Good skill to learn and deliver parcel in future, just in case.
I thought u know how to drive liao? You have been driving me crazy 😏
CheerS!!!😉
Quote from: Arctic on Feb 21, 2025, 05:33 PMBe walker courier loh. I saw many FT at hdb void deck sorting and delivering parcels
Got license and deliver parcels is a waste. Be phv or personal chauffeur sua
Phv like very saturated lei.
Quote from: GhostZM on Feb 21, 2025, 07:26 PMI thought u know how to drive liao? You have been driving me crazy 😏
CheerS!!!😉
Wah bro. You sweet talk skills no gf is a waste.
Quote from: Arctic on Feb 21, 2025, 05:31 PMLearn for recreation and interest only
None for work
What u gonna learn for recreation?
Quote from: Shiori on Feb 21, 2025, 05:33 PMlearn to be a person without integrity
:frown: :frown:
Quote from: 老曾记 on Feb 21, 2025, 08:33 PMWhat u gonna learn for recreation?
:frown: :frown:
I see my fren teacher whiskey appreciation class like quite interesting leh
Can use skillsfuture credits if I'm not wrong but still need to fork out cash
Take up security officer license, cleaner, basic hygiene courses :flash:
Quote from: Arctic on Feb 21, 2025, 05:42 PMOh I misread
Why you want to be pia kia ah?
be pai kia like will achieve success in life
aerial yoga dance :s13:
i got many things want to learn but i think i end up learn halfway or no time
Quote from: toolatesnow on Feb 21, 2025, 10:07 PMaerial yoga dance :s13:
Sis this one is play with the cloth one right.... Wah I scared the cloth snap and my neck break sia. The older I am, I become more humji
Quote from: Arctic on Feb 21, 2025, 08:41 PMI see my fren teacher whiskey appreciation class like quite interesting leh
Can use skillsfuture credits if I'm not wrong but still need to fork out cash
Just go ahead and learn. It should cost a lot bah??
I recently went for skills future class and paid cash $300+. It's worth it.
Quote from: 老曾记 on Feb 21, 2025, 10:41 PMJust go ahead and learn. It should cost a lot bah??
I recently went for skills future class and paid cash $300+. It's worth it.
I think need to pay cash $100 or $200, not really worth it liao
What course ?
Quote from: Arctic on Feb 21, 2025, 10:51 PMI think need to pay cash $100 or $200, not really worth it liao
What course ?
Mine is work related course. Very worth it.
Quote from: Shiori on Feb 21, 2025, 10:03 PMbe pai kia like will achieve success in life
need to go jail first as baptism by fire
Want to learn embalming but local don't have, must go overseas
:s22:
Quote from: frogcalls on Feb 22, 2025, 12:40 AMWant to learn embalming but local don't have, must go overseas
:s22:
Oh I checked before. The most affordable will be philippines
Sgd $1600+
Curriculum around 3mth if I'm not wrong.
Quote from: 老曾记 on Feb 22, 2025, 06:54 AMOh I checked before. The most affordable will be philippines
Sgd $1600+
Curriculum around 3mth if I'm not wrong.
Yeap, nearest is Philippines. 10 years ago keen to go, but got housing loan, kids still yang, so kiv the idea. Now kids growing up, parents old age, expenses very xiong, still cannot disappear for few months to pursue. Guess is next life bah
Learn to bai lan, must somehow stay mentally healthy till retirement age
Quote from: frogcalls on Feb 22, 2025, 08:49 AMYeap, nearest is Philippines. 10 years ago keen to go, but got housing loan, kids still yang, so kiv the idea. Now kids growing up, parents old age, expenses very xiong, still cannot disappear for few months to pursue. Guess is next life bah
Ideally we hope to continue learning as we age but with kids might be very challenging. Your best bet is after they started working.
Quote from: 炎杀黑龙波 on Feb 22, 2025, 08:55 AMLearn to bai lan, must somehow stay mentally healthy till retirement age
I tried tangping almost 2 years, bth lei. Maybe because I don't have interest back then
Quote from: 老曾记 on Feb 22, 2025, 10:20 AMIdeally we hope to continue learning as we age but with kids might be very challenging. Your best bet is after they started working.
Dunno his age but by that time probably 60s liao unless like those have kids in early 20s
Quote from: 老曾记 on Feb 22, 2025, 10:20 AMI tried tangping almost 2 years, bth lei. Maybe because I don't have interest back then
U whr got tangping 2 yrs? U were tking care of ur dad. After that another 6 mths or less?
Anyway i will say most people dont have that mentality to tang ping. We are too caught up in rat race.
Must be totally give up like tiongs then maybe can
Quote from: default on Feb 22, 2025, 10:23 AMU whr got tangping 2 yrs? U were tking care of ur dad. After that another 6 mths or less?
Anyway i will say most people dont have that mentality to tang ping. We are too caught up in rat race.
Must be totally give up like tiongs then maybe can
Unemployed more than 6 mths is bai lan i think
If still working is tang ping :flash:
Quote from: 老曾记 on Feb 22, 2025, 10:20 AMI tried tangping almost 2 years, bth lei. Maybe because I don't have interest back then
Tan ping and Bai lan is diff!
Tan ping need strong $ or leech parents, in sg no $ cannot carry it out.
Bai lan mean while is working full time and drawing full salary but full time jiak Zua in the job
Quote from: No Guessing Game on Feb 22, 2025, 11:30 AMUnemployed more than 6 mths is bai lan i think
If still working is tang ping :flash:
Opposite actually lie flat is work part time / no work
Bai lan is work full time eat snake full time, Tio pok then just find new place to rot
Quote from: No Guessing Game on Feb 22, 2025, 11:30 AMUnemployed more than 6 mths is bai lan i think
If still working is tang ping :flash:
But she nv tk fr parents and got contribute la. So technically not tang ping not bai lan and not 啃老.
Like half tang ping at most
Quote from: 老曾记 on Feb 21, 2025, 08:33 PMWah bro. You sweet talk skills no gf is a waste.
Perhaps this kind of talk is the exact reason why I have no gf 😂😂
CheerS!!!😉
Quote from: default on Feb 22, 2025, 10:23 AMU whr got tangping 2 yrs? U were tking care of ur dad. After that another 6 mths or less?
Anyway i will say most people dont have that mentality to tang ping. We are too caught up in rat race.
Must be totally give up like tiongs then maybe can
True. When I'm not working I consider myself tangping.
I develop anxiety from lack of income.
Quote from: GhostZM on Feb 22, 2025, 01:19 PMPerhaps this kind of talk is the exact reason why I have no gf 😂😂
CheerS!!!😉
I think u can open a class and teach people how to sweet talk.
Quote from: 炎杀黑龙波 on Feb 22, 2025, 11:57 AMOpposite actually lie flat is work part time / no work
Bai lan is work full time eat snake full time, Tio pok then just find new place to rot
Quote from: default on Feb 22, 2025, 12:20 PMBut she nv tk fr parents and got contribute la. So technically not tang ping not bai lan and not 啃老.
Like half tang ping at most
My bad. I got both of the terms mixed up.
Quote from: 炎杀黑龙波 on Feb 22, 2025, 11:55 AMTan ping and Bai lan is diff!
Tan ping need strong $ or leech parents, in sg no $ cannot carry it out.
Bai lan mean while is working full time and drawing full salary but full time jiak Zua in the job
Now i am confused lol.
i tot tang ping means do the bare minimum at work/outside of work. And bai lan is, for example, i lost moi job/i resigned from moi job and i am not going to find a proper job because it's difficult to land on a new fulltime job. Both cases is also not putting effort but bai lan seems to be worse no?
QuoteThose who choose to "lie flat" may lower their professional commitment and economic ambitions, simplify their goals, while still being fiscally productive for their own essential needs, and prioritize psychological health over economic materialism.
Quotebai lan, which means "to actively embrace a deteriorating situation, rather than trying to turn it around". Basically, it refers to a voluntary retreat from pursuing certain goals because individuals realize they are simply too difficult to achieve.
thats why their definition quite shitty
Quote from: No Guessing Game on Feb 22, 2025, 11:11 PMNow i am confused lol.
i tot tang ping means do the bare minimum at work/outside of work. And bai lan is, for example, i lost moi job/i resigned from moi job and i am not going to find a proper job because it's difficult to land on a new fulltime job. Both cases is also not putting effort but bai lan seems to be worse no?
Lie flat is do minimal, can don't work then don't work, else if cannot don't do then do part time, whatever is the minimal to survive.
Bai lan is as the quoted msg say whatever bad stuff happen, embrace it instead of trying to do better
In job context = project failing, just let it fail, cannot promote then don't promote just cruise along.
So basically if you see people who rot at work, they are people who bai lan
Quote from: 老曾记 on Feb 22, 2025, 10:20 AMIdeally we hope to continue learning as we age but with kids might be very challenging. Your best bet is after they started working.
Actually for me to learn this skill, is hoping to change job eventually. Guess by then, too old liao
I also thinking of picking up skills for current job and potential new job. But which job will want to take above 40s as newbie?
Even in healthcare say u do a career switch, end up u jiak sai waste time and money and cannot go back previous industry
Say u study to be nurse. Minimum need diploma if not degree.. that will be minimum total like 3.5 to 4 yrs.
Come out who want old nurse?
Same like doctor or the-rapist. U want a 45 yo or 50 yo junior dr?
Quote from: default on Feb 23, 2025, 01:22 PMI also thinking of picking up skills for current job and potential new job. But which job will want to take above 40s as newbie?
Even in healthcare say u do a career switch, end up u jiak sai waste time and money and cannot go back previous industry
Say u study to be nurse. Minimum need diploma if not degree.. that will be minimum total like 3.5 to 4 yrs.
Come out who want old nurse?
Same like doctor or the-rapist. U want a 45 yo or 50 yo junior dr?
Prepare to do jobs such as security guard if low ses and change career :frown:
Quote from: 老曾记 on Feb 22, 2025, 06:34 PMI think u can open a class and teach people how to sweet talk.
No need to teach de.. it's very easy
Just buy beverages from this place and drink can liao..hehe
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CheerS!!!😉