I have a friend A (guy) and friend B (girl).
Me and them are friends since intern period. Both are very nice people.
Friend A and friend B slowly become very close friend. Me not very close to both of them in comparison.
A later come out do own biz.
Jio B to help out a short while before B officially goes Aussie to work.
After B finished with helping A. She went to Aussie and reduced contacting A.
When B come back, she Jio me and other friends for lunch, she mentioned her unhappiness with A when she was working with A.
When I met A. A asked me how come B never contact him, isit because she had a better life in Aussie so abandon the friends in SG.
Although I know some of the things that B complained about A. But B did not tell A directly.
So I hinted to A by asking, did he had any disagreement with B during his work since that's their final contact. He said no, everything went well. So I stopped at that.
I hope they patch back as friends but it seems B just wan to ghost A and not talk to him anymore. A always asking me why B not contacting him, but when I ask A to ownself contact. He dont wan. And I stopped at that.
It is a precious friendship just gone like this.
If it is u in my shoes, will u do anything or leave it the way it is? I'm thinking, for A, ignorance is bliss right. Knowing it will just make him more depressed.
A dunno B very irritated with him.
She said if he really wants to know the reason why she never talk to him. He should personally talk to her.
I hope he gets some closure on this ending friendship. At least he wouldn't keep questioning himself why B ignoring him.
As I grow I realised not every relationships (romance or not) can be patched. And it's sad.
Just ignore, from the fact that A refuse to contact B first already show that A is not totally ignorant of what is going on.
He's just using you for whatever agenda he have, if you move wrong step you might lose the friendship of B
Heck care, ownself take care ownself
It's between A and B..
I dun see the need for you to intervene..
Friends come and go in different stages of life..if they truly appreciate their friendship, they will do something abt it eventually.
CheerS!!!😉
Just ignore and let it be. The friendship is between A and B. If chiu chup ji kar it becomes complicated like office politics and your relationship with both A and B might turn sour.
no need to chup jit kar
As above