https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=szNrSOV_LXg
what do you think? i agree the father esp screwed up the son's life
一手好牌打得稀烂
totally agree got 3 times to change the son's life...... repeat gao kao, go germany (these 2 esp the germany one i feel most impt), then nv buy the beijing house
hes trying to force his son to fulfill his own fucked upness and beh kan ness
Imo, many of such scholars are 'enlightened' and are not interested in this materialistic world
Recently there is this young scholar in sg who "retired" too right? His news appeared in papers, edmw also discussed about him
My army jr who has a phd also enlightened kind of guy, he's a bio researcher iirc. Not interested in money and branded etc, earn enough to use can liao
However, this chinese genius lying flat is extreme lah
Quote from: Arctic on Dec 28, 2024, 09:16 AMImo, many of such scholars are 'enlightened' and are not interested in this materialistic world
Recently there is this young scholar in sg who "retired" too right? His news appeared in papers, edmw also discussed about him
My army jr who has a phd also enlightened kind of guy, he's a bio researcher iirc. Not interested in money and branded etc, earn enough to use can liao
However, this chinese genius lying flat is extreme lah
i also got a colleague like that
recently just joined company... like 6 mths or so
tell us he wants to study to phd nxt time
Deeply ingrained Chinese parents all same sheep brain. Study high high get goods jobs sure huat.
Cock block u ask u to get into debts get married with 5 kids let them play buy 1m hdb. Their brains are so retarded feel like wallop them
Quote from: default on Dec 28, 2024, 10:36 AMi also got a colleague like that
recently just joined company... like 6 mths or so
tell us he wants to study to phd nxt time
Study for promotion or to gain knowledge?
I know of ppl study masters just it advance in career that's all
Quote from: Arctic on Dec 28, 2024, 12:27 PMStudy for promotion or to gain knowledge?
he said gain knowledge. i kind of think he rly doesnt want to work or not work in that place but more of academics or research
Quote from: default on Dec 28, 2024, 12:53 PMhe said gain knowledge. i kind of think he rly doesnt want to work or not work in that place but more of academics or research
Same as my fren then
That's why I say those who are really damn smart kind are enlightened. They dun care about worldly material stuff liao
Quote from: default on Dec 28, 2024, 01:41 AMwhat do you think? i agree the father esp screwed up the son's life
一手好牌打得稀烂
totally agree got 3 times to change the son's life...... repeat gao kao, go germany (these 2 esp the germany one i feel most impt), then nv buy the beijing house
hes trying to force his son to fulfill his own fucked upness and beh kan ness
This is what happens when the parents messes too much with the kid's development authoritarian style.
Related: https://forums.hardwarezone.com.sg/threads/young-adults-who-severed-ties-with-their-parents-say-filial-piety-should-go-both-ways-34yo-ms-joey-liaw-she-ended-up-in-a-coffee-shop-alone.7091624/page-14#post-154823072
Saw this thread over at edmw. Many cyberbullies in the thread as usual siding with the parents over the kid. Parents made the choice to have sex and give birth to the kid, so they should be responsible and support the child's development so that the child can lead an independent life.
Quote from: Arctic on Dec 28, 2024, 01:08 PMSame as my fren then
That's why I say those who are really damn smart kind are enlightened. They dun care about worldly material stuff liao
Enlightened meh? I think more of 兴趣.
I also got 兴趣 in many things but no rich laopeh what to do
Quote from: default on Dec 29, 2024, 06:20 PMEnlightened meh? I think more of 兴趣.
I also got 兴趣 in many things but no rich laopeh what to do
Cos you say he further his studies is to gain knowledge and not to advance in career mah so I assume he's enlightened
Most of the ppl I know who pursued further studies is to advance in career, just to one up the countless degree holders
Quote from: default on Dec 29, 2024, 06:20 PMEnlightened meh? I think more of 兴趣.
I also got 兴趣 in many things but no rich laopeh what to do
If a person's job is also their passion/interest, it's a career. Otherwise, it's just a job. Most people don't have careers. Perhaps making money is their interest so every good paying high position job is their career.