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Title: Am i beri cold and heartless?
Post by: Magical Fingertip on Jul 08, 2024, 05:48 PM
Used to have this ex colleague auntie sometimes  bring her cooking  for me then after i left
Never contact her liao. She got miss call me in WhatsApp one day but i never call back  Not long after heard someone got cancer and uplorry from the chat group saw a photo that look like her but not sure if it's her. I dunno if it's her bec i forgot her name also 
I also never ask about her. Then not long after totally no contact from her.
Am i heartless cold or is this normal?
Title: Re: Am i beri cold and heartless?
Post by: Arctic on Jul 08, 2024, 05:58 PM
Very normal, ppl will drift apart once no common interest which in your case is workplace

My ex manager died of cancer during covid period. Very nice guy who who actually cared fro his ept and subordinates. Found out from social media he passed away but I also din go to his wake
Title: Re: Am i beri cold and heartless?
Post by: GhostZM on Jul 08, 2024, 06:02 PM
It's very normal..esp in today's society

Days or weeks later, you'll forget about it liao..


CheerS!!!😉
Title: Re: Am i beri cold and heartless?
Post by: jim889 on Jul 08, 2024, 07:14 PM
Quote from: Nevereatrice on Jul 08, 2024, 05:48 PMUsed to have this ex colleague auntie sometimes  bring her cooking  for me then after i left
Never contact her liao. She got miss call me in WhatsApp one day but i never call back  Not long after heard someone got cancer and uplorry from the chat group saw a photo that look like her but not sure if it's her. I dunno if it's her bec i forgot her name also 
I also never ask about her. Then not long after totally no contact from her.
Am i heartless cold or is this normal?

auntie then normal if chiobu then not normal
 :s13:
Title: Re: Am i beri cold and heartless?
Post by: bsg on Jul 08, 2024, 08:00 PM
Quote from: Nevereatrice on Jul 08, 2024, 05:48 PMUsed to have this ex colleague auntie sometimes  bring her cooking  for me then after i left
Never contact her liao. She got miss call me in WhatsApp one day but i never call back  Not long after heard someone got cancer and uplorry from the chat group saw a photo that look like her but not sure if it's her. I dunno if it's her bec i forgot her name also 
I also never ask about her. Then not long after totally no contact from her.
Am i heartless cold or is this normal?

Where got cold heartless.

U even bother to bring this up ley.

Cold heartless is jitao don't even bother bring up for thinking discussing
Title: Re: Am i beri cold and heartless?
Post by: default on Jul 08, 2024, 08:41 PM
a bit bah. u shd at least have msged back
Title: Re: Am i beri cold and heartless?
Post by: encourageSome1 on Jul 08, 2024, 11:47 PM
Quote from: Nevereatrice on Jul 08, 2024, 05:48 PMUsed to have this ex colleague auntie sometimes  bring her cooking  for me then after i left
Never contact her liao. She got miss call me in WhatsApp one day but i never call back  Not long after heard someone got cancer and uplorry from the chat group saw a photo that look like her but not sure if it's her. I dunno if it's her bec i forgot her name also 
I also never ask about her. Then not long after totally no contact from her.
Am i heartless cold or is this normal?
Hmm while it's common for ppl to drift away ..
sometimes ppl really got thing to say

I had one where I took call of an bbfa uncle fren he fell n was lying on hospital bed .. just called to say he gg to wait for op nx few days so just call few frens
Quite poor thg cos no close w sibling.. girlfriend who was my mutual fren also drift apart alr .. so I lkk listen his story and visit him once

Another schoolmate is those 1x yr meet once n hubby don let her see fren much one .. sudden called say want to meet .. lkk thought she want sell me thg but own school time bff.. let her be
Turn out at hangout she cancer battling.. in her youth prime years just had kids n suddenly cancer jealous of her 😭😣😖
Title: Re: Am i beri cold and heartless?
Post by: encourageSome1 on Jul 08, 2024, 11:49 PM
Quote from: Nevereatrice on Jul 08, 2024, 05:48 PMUsed to have this ex colleague auntie sometimes  bring her cooking  for me then after i left
Never contact her liao. She got miss call me in WhatsApp one day but i never call back  Not long after heard someone got cancer and uplorry from the chat group saw a photo that look like her but not sure if it's her. I dunno if it's her bec i forgot her name also 
I also never ask about her. Then not long after totally no contact from her.
Am i heartless cold or is this normal?
I usu call back 1/2-1 day when i m free
Title: Re: Am i beri cold and heartless?
Post by: Suntan on Jul 08, 2024, 11:55 PM
Quite cold & heartless. She took care of Chiu & at least keep in touch. Heard China ppl r lidat. Usually moi will still reply.
Title: Re: Am i beri cold and heartless?
Post by: nyvrem on Jul 09, 2024, 01:19 AM
orhh.. u brought this up means u feeling a sense of guilt

gg riao

better go pay respect to aunty rah

later she come visit chu with cook food

 :frown:  :frown:  :frown:
Title: Re: Am i beri cold and heartless?
Post by: no guessing game on Jul 09, 2024, 08:35 AM
Normal for ex colleagues to stop contacting each other after some time. It's purely business. Nothing personal.
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