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Title: Guys how...
Post by: Tuna seng on Jun 08, 2024, 10:17 PM
There's this girl madly in love with me but to me i see no future with her and treat her as a friend. I asked her go find other guys already but still every other days will Keep crying and confessing every few days.
How to make her understand this. I value the friendship and will always care for her but as a friend
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: encourageSome1 on Jun 08, 2024, 10:21 PM
Quote from: Nevereatrice on Jun 08, 2024, 10:17 PMThere's this girl madly in love with me but to me i see no future with her and treat her as a friend. I asked her go find other guys already but still every other days will Keep crying and confessing every few days.
How to make her understand this. I value the friendship and will always care for her but as a friend

Hmm if I were u , since u alr did everyth u could have , got the proper talk n why u can't like her or why no future w her ..
if I m in yr shoes I ll avoid her lor.
I also block one of my frens like that cos he is equivalent of this person but he still sometimes call to yak 5-20 mins maybe 5-10 times a year .
I block him on wa but I still Tk normal calls and not respond to any messages sms or social media

I block wa calls n messaging cos I find it quite disturbing n I like to limit his reliance on me listening to him talk

If he uses normal phone he calls 3-5 times a year : more manageable.. the lesser time he use on contacting me , e more personal free time he has for real stuff in life
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: Tuna seng on Jun 08, 2024, 10:22 PM
Quote from: EncourageSome1 on Jun 08, 2024, 10:21 PMHmm if I were u , since u alr did everyth u could have , got the proper talk n why u can't like her or why no future w her ..
if I m in yr shoes I ll avoid her lor.
I also block one of my frens like that cos he is equivalent of this person but he still sometimes call to yak 5-20 mins maybe 5-10 times a year .
I block him on wa but I still Tk normal calls and not respond to any messages sms or social media

I block wa calls n messaging cos I find it quite disturbing n I like to limit his reliance on me listening to him talk

If he uses normal phone he calls 3-5 times a year : more manageable.. the lesser time he use on contacting me , e more personal free time he has for real stuff in life

Chiobu spotted
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: encourageSome1 on Jun 08, 2024, 10:23 PM
Quote from: Nevereatrice on Jun 08, 2024, 10:22 PMChiobu spotted

Lao a mah 99 yo ok please ah
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: xcodes on Jun 08, 2024, 10:25 PM
can try to recommend your friends or other guys to her ... maybe she'll find him suitable ... a good place to start is here ...  ;D
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: jim889 on Jun 08, 2024, 10:25 PM
chiu gotch piak her or not if piak oredi unable to siam liao


:frown:
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: Tuna seng on Jun 08, 2024, 10:26 PM
Quote from: EncourageSome1 on Jun 08, 2024, 10:23 PMLao a mah 99 yo ok please ah

She quite pitiful lost her father mum getting old and she from poor family. I always care for her as a friend treat her makan buy stuffs she likes for her.think avoid or block her is not possible
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: encourageSome1 on Jun 08, 2024, 10:27 PM
Quote from: jim889 on Jun 08, 2024, 10:25 PMchiu gotch piak her or not if piak oredi unable to siam liao


:frown:
even if they did , he alr don't want her in his future , unless she got his baby ...
If baby I doubt a mom will stay w a man who don't love her unless she can't work need long term rice ticket

Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: encourageSome1 on Jun 08, 2024, 10:29 PM
Quote from: Nevereatrice on Jun 08, 2024, 10:26 PMShe quite pitiful lost her father mum getting old and she from poor family. I always care for her as a friend treat her makan buy stuffs she likes for her.think avoid or block her is not possible
U find a gf / wifey n  quickly intro her kill her hope lor
N it's big no no to show too above n over friendship concern. Cos 99.9% of guys don't really Tk care of other humans except his family n gf / wifey or biz related reason
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: encourageSome1 on Jun 08, 2024, 10:31 PM
Quote from: Nevereatrice on Jun 08, 2024, 10:26 PMShe quite pitiful lost her father mum getting old and she from poor family. I always care for her as a friend treat her makan buy stuffs she likes for her.think avoid or block her is not possible
There s a reason why same gender easier to care n lesser room for this kind of  unreciprocated feeling problem
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: Tuna seng on Jun 08, 2024, 10:32 PM
Quote from: xcodes on Jun 08, 2024, 10:25 PMcan try to recommend your friends or other guys to her ... maybe she'll find him suitable ... a good place to start is here ...  ;D

Problem is She don't want know other ppl her social circle also very small.
I told her don't waste time on me but at the same time also worry she will kena cheated by other guys as she got naive personality
Her ex borrow a few k from her bec of gambling problems never return..
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: Tuna seng on Jun 08, 2024, 10:45 PM
Quote from: EncourageSome1 on Jun 08, 2024, 10:29 PMU find a gf / wifey n  quickly intro her kill her hope lor
N it's big no no to show too above n over friendship concern. Cos 99.9% of guys don't really Tk care of other humans except his family n gf / wifey or biz related reason

Brother take care of sister same ma
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: encourageSome1 on Jun 08, 2024, 10:46 PM
Quote from: Nevereatrice on Jun 08, 2024, 10:45 PMBrother take care of sister same ma

If same blood then ok
Cousin also np
Non family v easy to get messy or misunderstood
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: Imboredtodeath on Jun 08, 2024, 10:53 PM
U need to wake up...

Edmw reply
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: encourageSome1 on Jun 08, 2024, 11:09 PM
Quote from: default on Jun 08, 2024, 10:53 PMU need to wake up...

Edmw reply
Hmm I somehow thk he serious 6677 wor
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: Tuna seng on Jun 08, 2024, 11:16 PM
Quote from: default on Jun 08, 2024, 10:53 PMU need to wake up...

Edmw reply

Woke up liao.also ate medicine.
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: Imboredtodeath on Jun 08, 2024, 11:19 PM
Quote from: EncourageSome1 on Jun 08, 2024, 11:09 PMHmm I somehow thk he serious 6677 wor


Dunno lor maybe is real

Anyway all these 只是过眼云烟

I still doing work
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: encourageSome1 on Jun 08, 2024, 11:22 PM
Quote from: default on Jun 08, 2024, 11:19 PMDunno lor maybe is real

Anyway all these 只是过眼云烟

I still doing work
Oi why so late ? Tmr sun lei , now night time eh , why at work ? Dinner what time Jiak ?
Time to go zz soon a ?
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: Chao seng on Jun 08, 2024, 11:30 PM
Quote from: Nevereatrice on Jun 08, 2024, 10:17 PMThere's this girl madly in love with me but to me i see no future with her and treat her as a friend. I asked her go find other guys already but still every other days will Keep crying and confessing every few days.
How to make her understand this. I value the friendship and will always care for her but as a friend

I was in the same situation as you..until she saw me laji with another guy.
It's been 3 years since she blocked my number.. :s39:


CheerS!!!😉
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: Imboredtodeath on Jun 08, 2024, 11:34 PM
Quote from: EncourageSome1 on Jun 08, 2024, 11:22 PMOi why so late ? Tmr sun lei , now night time eh , why at work ? Dinner what time Jiak ?
Time to go zz soon a ?


Do some network update and maintenance lor...
Can only work when no one else is working
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: Imboredtodeath on Jun 08, 2024, 11:35 PM
Cannot zzz soon la. Had a good dinner w colleague but sleepy now.

Maybe 3am or past that then can finish work
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: encourageSome1 on Jun 08, 2024, 11:38 PM
Quote from: default on Jun 08, 2024, 11:34 PMDo some network update and maintenance lor...
Can only work when no one else is working
I see .. tk cr and do finish alr go zz more tmr 🙏🏿💪🏿💪🏿👏🏿
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: X on Jun 09, 2024, 02:24 AM
Quote from: Nevereatrice on Jun 08, 2024, 10:26 PMShe quite pitiful lost her father mum getting old and she from poor family. I always care for her as a friend treat her makan buy stuffs she likes for her.think avoid or block her is not possible

Wah at least you and her still friend.

Unlike some people just decided to go mia and still shoot back at forum.
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: Tuna seng on Jun 09, 2024, 09:26 AM
Quote from: GhostZM on Jun 08, 2024, 11:30 PMI was in the same situation as you..until she saw me laji with another guy.
It's been 3 years since she blocked my number.. :s39:


CheerS!!!😉


How come you're ai girl more and more sexy lol!
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: jim889 on Jun 09, 2024, 09:32 AM
Quote from: default on Jun 08, 2024, 10:53 PMU need to wake up...

Edmw reply

 :s13:  :s13:  :s13:  :s13:

moi left hand dun wanna let go
 :frown:
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: Arctic on Jun 09, 2024, 12:05 PM
Draw a line lah

Say you not interested in her then ghost her
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: jim889 on Jun 09, 2024, 12:08 PM

edmw way ish piak first and ghost her

 :frown:
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: Tuna seng on Jun 09, 2024, 12:16 PM
Quote from: peaceheart on Jun 09, 2024, 12:05 PMDraw a line lah

Say you not interested in her then ghost her

Already draw line many times also ghost her many times after awhile will come say ok treat u as fren just don't ignore her then the crying and confessing will happen again after awhile
Guys and girls really cannot remain as friends
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: Arctic on Jun 09, 2024, 02:51 PM
Quote from: Nevereatrice on Jun 09, 2024, 12:16 PMAlready draw line many times also ghost her many times after awhile will come say ok treat u as fren just don't ignore her then the crying and confessing will happen again after awhile
Guys and girls really cannot remain as friends

Wah llst

Your charm is too difficult to resist
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: Arctic on Jun 09, 2024, 02:51 PM
But no matter what, dun reject too harsh else karma next time
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: Chao seng on Jun 09, 2024, 03:36 PM
Quote from: Nevereatrice on Jun 09, 2024, 09:26 AMHow come you're ai girl more and more sexy lol!

Coz AI knows what I want by now..lol

(https://i.postimg.cc/Nf2Hxn9L/IMG-20240517-WA0000.jpg)


CheerS!!!😉
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: encourageSome1 on Jun 09, 2024, 03:43 PM
Quote from: GhostZM on Jun 08, 2024, 11:30 PMI was in the same situation as you..until she saw me laji with another guy.
It's been 3 years since she blocked my number.. :s39:


CheerS!!!😉

what does laji mean?
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: encourageSome1 on Jun 09, 2024, 03:45 PM
Quote from: Nevereatrice on Jun 09, 2024, 12:16 PMAlready draw line many times also ghost her many times after awhile will come say ok treat u as fren just don't ignore her then the crying and confessing will happen again after awhile
Guys and girls really cannot remain as friends
If the is sort 痴痴缠 then yea I think can't friend .. If a bit jjww only not too over can maintain as fren nvm
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: Chao seng on Jun 09, 2024, 03:47 PM
Quote from: EncourageSome1 on Jun 09, 2024, 03:43 PMwhat does laji mean?


French kiss..


CheerS!!!😉
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: Tuna seng on Jun 09, 2024, 03:58 PM
Quote from: GhostZM on Jun 09, 2024, 03:36 PMCoz AI knows what I want by now..lol

(https://i.postimg.cc/Nf2Hxn9L/IMG-20240517-WA0000.jpg)


CheerS!!!😉

look like caning material 
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: encourageSome1 on Jun 09, 2024, 04:06 PM
Quote from: GhostZM on Jun 09, 2024, 03:47 PMFrench kiss..


CheerS!!!😉
why kiss is call laji?

Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: jim889 on Jun 09, 2024, 04:07 PM
Quote from: EncourageSome1 on Jun 09, 2024, 04:06 PMwhy kiss is call laji?



ji = tongue
la ji.. la kopi.. chiu go imagine
 :frown:
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: jim889 on Jun 09, 2024, 04:08 PM
Quote from: GhostZM on Jun 09, 2024, 03:36 PMCoz AI knows what I want by now..lol

(https://i.postimg.cc/Nf2Hxn9L/IMG-20240517-WA0000.jpg)


CheerS!!!😉

leemove towel  :flash:  :flash:
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: encourageSome1 on Jun 09, 2024, 05:06 PM
Quote from: jim889 on Jun 09, 2024, 04:07 PMji = tongue
la ji.. la kopi.. chiu go imagine
 :frown:

Hahahah ok now I uds
We all so creative
French kiss looong word short until 4 letter word 🫣😅😝🤣
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: Tuna seng on Jun 09, 2024, 05:08 PM
Quote from: EncourageSome1 on Jun 09, 2024, 05:06 PMHahahah ok now I uds
We all so creative
French kiss looong word short until 4 letter word 🫣😅😝🤣

Wa u got so innocent bo first time come across
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: jim889 on Jun 09, 2024, 05:11 PM
Quote from: EncourageSome1 on Jun 09, 2024, 05:06 PMHahahah ok now I uds
We all so creative
French kiss looong word short until 4 letter word 🫣😅😝🤣

not creative lah.. is tok hokkien way
 :frown:
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: BuiBuiForeverAlone on Jun 09, 2024, 05:27 PM
Maybe it's predestined :frown:
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: Chao seng on Jun 09, 2024, 07:37 PM
Quote from: Nevereatrice on Jun 09, 2024, 03:58 PMlook like caning material 

She's reached legal age..I can assure you of that.


CheerS!!!😉
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: Chao seng on Jun 09, 2024, 07:38 PM
Quote from: EncourageSome1 on Jun 09, 2024, 04:06 PMwhy kiss is call laji?



Coz it's rubbish(垃圾)..overrated lol


CheerS!!!😉

Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: Tuna seng on Jun 09, 2024, 07:42 PM
Quote from: GhostZM on Jun 09, 2024, 07:37 PMShe's reached legal age..I can assure you of that.


CheerS!!!😉

Too bad she never wear circle specs other wise i marry her
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: BuiBuiForeverAlone on Jun 09, 2024, 07:45 PM
Quote from: GhostZM on Jun 09, 2024, 03:36 PMCoz AI knows what I want by now..lol

(https://i.postimg.cc/Nf2Hxn9L/IMG-20240517-WA0000.jpg)


CheerS!!!😉
Why AI generate strabismus-eyed girl?
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: Chao seng on Jun 09, 2024, 07:45 PM
Quote from: jim889 on Jun 09, 2024, 04:08 PMleemove towel  :flash:  :flash:

You go try on your Stable Diffusion lah..
Save the pic and use it to train your SD AI


CheerS!!!😉
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: Chao seng on Jun 09, 2024, 07:47 PM
Quote from: BuiBuiForeverAlone on Jun 09, 2024, 07:45 PMWhy AI generate strabismus-eyed girl?


I thought she was looking to her left..maybe saw something big n long


CheerS!!!😉
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: encourageSome1 on Jun 09, 2024, 08:50 PM
Quote from: GhostZM on Jun 09, 2024, 07:38 PMCoz it's rubbish(垃圾)..overrated lol


CheerS!!!😉


Depends on who u kissing na
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: Chao seng on Jun 09, 2024, 09:12 PM
Quote from: Nevereatrice on Jun 09, 2024, 07:42 PMToo bad she never wear circle specs other wise i marry her


(https://i.postimg.cc/J7DdJvmD/IMG-20240427-WA0040.jpg)
This kind of specs KYM?


CheerS!!!😉
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: jim889 on Jun 09, 2024, 09:22 PM
Quote from: GhostZM on Jun 09, 2024, 07:45 PMYou go try on your Stable Diffusion lah..
Save the pic and use it to train your SD AI


CheerS!!!😉

moi havent gotch the taim to install stable diffusion yet..
busy with other thing
 :frown:
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: BuiBuiForeverAlone on Jun 10, 2024, 07:50 AM
Quote from: jim889 on Jun 09, 2024, 09:22 PMmoi havent gotch the taim to install stable diffusion yet..
busy with other thing
 :frown:

Chiu can use free stable diffusion online to generate images if chiu want.
https://venice.ai
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: Tuna seng on Jun 10, 2024, 11:27 AM
Quote from: EDMW is a forum for Singaporeans to discuss various topics on Jun 10, 2024, 07:50 AMChiu can use free stable diffusion online to generate images if chiu want.
https://venice.ai

What a nick
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: BuiBuiForeverAlone on Jun 10, 2024, 11:29 AM
Quote from: Nevereatrice on Jun 10, 2024, 11:27 AMWhat a nick


Need to see if the search engine can crawl and pick up this so that more users migrate over. :s13:
Title: Re: Guys how...
Post by: Tuna seng on Jun 10, 2024, 11:30 AM
Quote from: EDMW is a forum for Singaporeans to discuss various topics on Jun 10, 2024, 11:29 AMNeed to see if the search engine can crawl and pick up this so that more users migrate over. :s13:

Brilliant!
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